Why We Fall So Hard In Love?
Love Should Inspire Us To Do Great Things, No Matter Who We Choose!
Regardless of sexual preference, falling in love so hard & easily, should come as no surprise. We tag this word onto many things that we do in our daily lives. We ‘Love’ to travel, have a new car and house.
We ‘Love’ our families, children & more money. Regarding relationships, some individuals show their feelings towards their significant other) in strange ways. (Some of these crazy asses resort to violence as a way of expressing themselves),
Why we fall so hard in love that would make folks act nuts, is beyond the realm of normal thinking. Maybe you’d find answers to many questions you may ask yourself. Read this article to see what you need to know:
What Actually True Love Means?
True love is a unique and passionate bond that connects you as a couple that wants the best for the other person regardless of what that means for them.
It is the foundation for a healthy, loving relationship. True love is authentic and genuine.
What Are The Basic Rules Of Love?
We’ve researched data and found the basic rules of love are:
- Always tell the truth.
- Love, goodwill, wisdom and understanding are absolutely required.
- A sense of humor is quite necessary.
- Respect each other and each other’s desire for privacy.
- Be tolerant.
- Be patient, it is foolish to fuss over small things.
- Never let the sun set on your anger.
What Are Signs Of True Love?
You can usually recognize real love by these 8 signs:
- You feel safe with them…
- They listen…
- They acknowledge your…
- You can communicate easily…
- They encourage you to do your own thing…
- You trust each other…
- They make an effort…
- You know you can collaborate or compromise.
How Can You Know It’s True Love?
How to know you’re in love through these 7 signals:
1) Your body reacts to them…
2) You can’t stop thinking about them…
3) Being with them feels super easy…
4) You don’t care about your ex anymore…
5) You’re okay with making small sacrifices for them…
6) You’re comfortable being just you around them…
7) You can’t stop talking about them.
What Are The 3 C’s In Love?
A strong and healthy relationship is built on the three C’s…
- Communication
- Compromise
- Commitment
What Are The Concepts Of Love?
One of the best known is the three-factor conception of love, formulated by R. Sternberg, assuming there are three components of love: Intimacy, Passion, & Commitment. These components evolve over time and are constantly changing (Stenberg 1986).
How Do You Know A Man Loves You?
Many times, the true signs are in the little things like his body language, the way he prioritizes you, or when he goes out of his way to try make you happy.
Other signs he loves you are that he asks for your opinion on things and he says nice things about you.
How Do You Know If A Woman Loves You Truly?
Here are 5 signs she genuinely loves you:
- She won’t judge you and make you feel like you’re “too much,” …”you can cry as much as you need to. I’m here…”
- She not only listens, but also hear you…
- She doesn’t take you for granted…
- She make you feel emotionally safe…
- She’s brave enough to become vulnerable…
How Does A Woman Show Love To A Man?
In plain language: Men often feel most loved by the woman in their lives when their partners hug them, kiss them, smile at them, and explicitly offer gratitude, praise, and words of affection.
Men also feel loved and connected through sexuality, often to a greater degree than women do. But in regards to first time dating, most women will take their time instead of quickly ‘jumping in with both feet.’
What Is The Real Definition Of Love?
Love is an intense, deep affection for another person. It’s the action of having a deep bond based in commitment, respect, trust and acceptance.
This feeling of an intense affection for someone, is something that’s hard to describe. Love can also refer to a strong like for something or to like something a lot.
Love has many other senses both as a verb and a noun.
What Are The 5 Levels Of Concept Of Love?
Even in modern relationships, where things are often less defined, and more unconventional, solid and long-lasting relationships o through five distinct stages of love: falling in love, becoming a couple, disillusionment, creating lasting love and finding a calling as a couple.
What Is The Most Common Of The 5 Love Languages?
- Words of affirmation: 23 percent.
- Quality time: 20 percent.
- Acts of service: 20 percent.
- Physical touch: 19 percent.
- Receiving gifts: 18 percent
What is the strongest love language?
During our ‘love-based’ research, we find that the strongest love language is ‘quality time.‘ The love language preferred by the most people is quality time. 38% rank this as their top love language.
Women – those under 45 (41%) and those 45 and over (44%) – are especially likely to say quality time is their favorite way to receive love.
What Are The Symptoms Of Love?
Here’s what these feelings might look like in action:
- You feel charged and euphoric around them…
- You can’t wait to see them again – even when they’ve just left…
- Everything feels exciting and new…
- You always make time for them…
- You don’t mind making sacrifices for them…
- You have fantastic sex…
- You Idolize them…
What Is The 24 Hour Rule For Relationships?
The 24 Hour Rule is a simple and effective method for saving relationships, particularly when you are tempted to act out of high emotion: When emotion is high, don’t let words fly. STOP!
Give it 24 Hours before you act. You don’t want to make the wrong move or say the wrong thing!
In case things are not going well in your relationship, you can Re-spark The Romance
In Conclusion
People express and receive love in 5 different ways, called love languages: quality time, words of affirmation, gifts, acts of service, and physical touch. The sooner you discover your language and that of your loved one, the sooner you can take your relationship to new heights.
From personal experience I would say that one of the fundamental pillars of any long lasting relationship is compromise. If you are not willing to do that then you are not going to be in any relationship for long. Because a good and strong relationship is a constant battle of compromises in order to find the perfect balance between the two partners and if one is not willing to back off then this is not bound to last for long.
Well put, my friend Stratos. The ‘relationship brainwaves’ that should be focusing among couples must be ‘moving down the same track’ together. Never move too fast! Follow your heart regarding making a relationship work, but both has to be in agreement on most issues.
I wanted to thank you for your article on “Why We Fall So Hard In Love”. I found your perspective on love to be refreshing and informative. Your discussion on the different aspects of love, such as the three C’s of communication, compromise, and commitment, and the five stages of love was very interesting. Additionally, your explanations of what true love is and the signs of true love were insightful and helpful.
Your article provides practical advice on recognizing true love and maintaining a strong and healthy relationship. It is also encouraging to see you address the issue of violence in relationships and stress the importance of mutual respect and understanding.
I was anxious to write and post this article on why folks fall so hard in love, act a damn fool when in love and it’s reasons for doing so. Love can do strange things to the unstable minds. Some relationships will accomplish great things just by following the three “C’s”. Thanks for checking in Anoth.
You forgot one “C”, companionship. For those of us who are older, its the main focus of a relationship. I often consider my mate as a constant and consummate companion.
Intimacy often manifests itself in several ways. Touch, sensuality and feeling often are present during intimacy. Sex although a big part of intimacy, should not be mistaken as total intimacy, particularly when it comes to love.
Love is a constant work in progress – I often work on myself to make be a better person to my mate. People who do not put in the work to make a love relationship work will often see it fail.
Thank you Elridge for your comment. The last part you written says it all. Couple’s must remain in ‘a work in progress’ mode,’ in regards to making things better as they move forward. Being on the ‘same page’ is what’s key and communication being on ‘top of the list.’
You simplified it well for anyone to understand about Love.
Why we fall so hard in Love?
I like this question and decided to comment on it. Falling in love is a complex emotional and biological process. A sense of excitement and nervousness caused by an unseen chemistry happening inside the body of two unique individuals attracted to one another. The experience is unique to each individual. This chemistry happening in the human body has played important roles in human survival and reproduction, making falling in love a natural and deeply ingrained part of our human experience. Falling in Love so hard is the wonder of human anatomy and its creation.
Paul.
Thanks for your input, Paul. (It sounds like you could’ve wrote ‘the book on love’) lol. I agree that everyone’s situation regarding love, is unique & different in its own right. But to be truly in love is an experience in itself, regardless of race, religion or sexual preference.