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The Thrill Of Dating Regarding Men Loving Women.
Love-Struck Men Wanting To Date Women In A Gentle Way.
I admit, that when it comes to men loving women, I’ve had a hard time meeting the ladies. Why? At the time, I had no idea! During my months of searching, one night I finally found someone (Or at least I thought!) Stunning. Just beautiful. Miss Universe! I was thinking to myself, “I’ve found that special someone I’ve been searching for all my life!”
I was just ecstatic! I was thinking, “Boy! I still got it.” Going through different women is exhausting. As men, we all go through rough times meeting the opposite sex (or in some cases, the same sex).
Anyway, I thought this was the best time of my life. No doubt about it! My sights were always focused on finding that special person who’d give me the thrill of a lifetime! But this was beyond my wildest dreams.
Long dark brown hair. Sexy exotic eyes. Nice ruby red lips. Magnificent body! Then just like that,…WHAM!! Alarm clock goes off. Time to go to work! (I gotta stop watching that damn porn before bedtime!)LOL.
I emerged from that deep dream state with a smile on my face. Shit felt so real!
Regardless, when it boils down to relationships, I always say no matter if it’s man and woman or same sex couple, it doesn’t matter! Love is Love…no matter how you look at it! There’s someone for everybody!
One of the biggest self-improvements that I’ve made in my life is finally selecting the right mate. The woman that would eventually become my wife!
Since I found the right woman and started building a relationship in regards to this growing process, I had to know to keep the peace within the home. Having now someone I’m compatible with eases all pain of loneliness, and replaces it with joy and happiness.
Seeking someone on the rebound…
Trying to find folks ‘on the re-bound’ only means being with someone who can fill the void after they have being dumped! Sometimes hooking up way too quickly is not good!
Time must be taken out to know him or her. The only thing on your mind is being lonely again! But let’s face it, it’s more than just a lonely thing. You get a little horny as well! This is your brain on sex and really, at the moment, that’s all that’s important!
Careful consideration must be in order, when selecting that perfect mate. Certain expectations must be met. (Just don’t get too picky. No one’s perfect.
The process of finding someone who’s nice and maybe a little interesting, can become a big task but is very doable. Doable….and fun!!
Never Turn Down Positive Guidance In Your Life:
Follow these guidelines: Don’t Rush In You know that when you get yourself in too deep fast, this level of involvement makes you panic when the fantasy lifts. You have to keep reminding yourself of how badly you react when relationships start to get real. Now-a-day, sex doesn’t matter. Same sex couples have the right to be in love to, just like anyone else..
You also need to think more about how your behavior is making the other person feel. Your breakneck pace sets up a whirlwind. If it doesn’t scare your love interest away, it’s so compelling, it can only provide the basis for an enormous fall. As a man, it’s always in your favor to try Staying on her good side.
Remember, there’s one very simple way out of this: SLOW DOWN. Take your time. Let the intimacy develop gradually. Think before you leap. Avoid breakneck courtships and start evaluating a relationship step by step as it’s developing.
Don’t Give Partners Unrealistic Expectations
Hopeful Couple Wondering If They Have A Future: You have to understand the weight of your words. Phrases such as “I’ve never met anyone like you before,” “I’m never this attracted to anyone,” and “I can’t wait for you to meet my sister – the two of you will really get along,” are incredibly seductive.
They evoke a feeling of specialty that encourages your partner to have high expectations as well as placing heavy pressure on you to come through with a commitment. Sure, romance is fun. But to many people romance means love, and love mean marriage. Watch your words. If you use words that convey caring and the promise of a future, the other person may respond accordingly.
Certain phrases can cause even a first date’s attitude toward you to change totally – sometimes from casual to “overboard” in a single evening. Don’t Misrepresent Your Romantic History Or Your Romantic Attitude Don’t make it sound as though your previous relationships ended because your ex-partners were somehow lacking.
It’s important that you accept responsibility for your participation and learn as much as you can from it. Blaming your execs can also deceive your new partner, Someone who likes you is going to want to accept what you say at face value. If you tell someone, “Your different,” he/she wants to believe you. If you say, “I want this relationship to be different,” or, “I think this relationship can be different,” he/she wants to share that hope.
Don’t convey attitudes without thinking about what you are saying. For example, if you mean “We don’t know each other well enough to have sex, “don’t say, “I would never go to bed with anyone unless I was certain the relationship is going to work out.” Otherwise the moment you go to bed, your partner is going to assume it means a long-term commitment. Keep in mind that at this stage you have no idea how the relationship will work out. You may want it to be different, but wanting is not enough.
Just Try Keeping Your Act Together
Until you are totally sure, avoid implying anything that can confuse your partner about your past or your intentions for the present – or the future.
Don’t Knock Yourself Out Trying To Impress A Potential Partner When you pull out all the stops to make an impression, your actions are saying,
“This relationship is very important to me; I want to make it work.” That may be true right now, but how will you feel in six weeks or six months?
Today you are overwhelmingly interested; tomorrow you may just feel overwhelmed. Everyone has a different method of impressing dates. What are yours? Do you share the most intimate details of your life right away?
If you do, your partner can’t help but think you are already clear about your intentions for developing a very sharing and exclusive relationship. Do you spend excessively on restaurants, gifts, or trips? Do you cook wonderful meals or bring elegant gifts?
All of this makes it appear that you’re taking the relationship very seriously, and it puts a lot of pressure on you to keep delivering. The reality is that you can’t possibly be ready for something this serious this soon. Your behavior needs to reflect this fact. If you have a history of eventually being haunted by everything you gave in the beginning, it’s time to become comfortable with giving less.
No one, who’s interested in you is going to walk away because you didn’t tell them your deepest, darkest secrets during your first phone call or take them to Paris on your first date.
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Ron’s final thought on the reality of love!