Ten Commandments List Of Rules For Women | Stonewall Facts

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Ten Commandments List Of Rules For Women | Stonewall Facts


These are helpful throughout the socializing process. 

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                 Woman studying her guide notes

You’re an aging, married women whose headed for divorce. Those 12 years of marriage were the worst years of your life!

Periodically, you talk with your best friend about your situation, sobbing about the marriage that went sour. Your friend, who’s a pro when it comes to dating and never married, makes you out a list of rules a woman should follow. You clip the list inside your favorite book for a future read and study of these rules. Now the ‘Ten Commandments of Dating For Women’ are put into place.

You try to prepare yourself for that inevitable divorce and then, the single world. But you’re rusty! It’s been a while since you’ve dated and you’re aware things change. You understand there are good guys and bad guys out there.

Either way, you want to do the right thing in the right way. In many situations, most women are clueless to the dating game. Many need guidance to rectify the situation.

Now as a soon to be single woman, maybe more romance would be in order.

You are new to dating and following your friends tips would be very helpful. No matter your age, race, or religion, they are set in stone just like the ones Moses received on Mount Sinai, and you break them at your own peril.

Now ladies let us begin:

1) Thou Shalt Return Calls Promptly. Return a potential’s call within 24 to 48 hours on weekdays, or 72 hours on weekends or holidays. Forget whatever Rules you’ve read, busy men get perturbed if they don’t hear back from you within that time frame.

If you’re missing each others calls, or if your text go unanswered, hear his explanation. It might be legit. But don’t complain or scold him.

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     Girl calling guy trying to find out, “What’s Up?”


2) Thou Shalt Honor Thy Dating Commitments. Nobody likes a flake. When a man you think you might be interested in musters up the courage to ask you out (and believe me, it never gets any easier for a guy, no matter how experienced he is), you must make a plain with him and stick to it.

NOTE: If you meet a man who doesn’t honor his dating commitments and is a double looker or best-offer boy, then he is not worth your time, love, or patience.


3) Thou Shalt Let The Man Take The Lead. Let him call you first. Let him ask you out first. If he’s shy, feel free to invite him to a party or a group event, but let him be the one to make the first move and suggest the first date.

Let him feel he’s cleverly tracking you by suggesting where and when your first several dates will happen. Ladies remember, if you want to be romanced, let the man lead  – there’s no way around that.

If you don’t let the man lead, you’ll turn him into a couch potato.

4) In The Beginning, Thou Shalt Leave The Past In The Past. Any long talks of past marriages, old boyfriends or girlfriends is strictly taboo at first (and forever, if you can get away with it).

Men can’t help it – they will picture you naked and having sex with some other guy, and they’d really rather not go there. 

5) Thou Shalt Be Engaging. Focus your attention on him – don’t let your eyes or interest wander, even if the waiter has the most adorable butt you’ve ever seen.
Let him look into those baby blues, big browns, or gorgeous greens and make sure you gaze into his and make good conversation.

Ladies, here’s a great tip! For every three questions he ask you, ask one back. 

If you let the man lead the conversation and give him home-court advantage, his chest will puff up, and other organs too! If you talk 50-50, it will neutralize the sex factor, and if you talk more than he does, he’ll go to sleep.

6) Thou Shalt Not Drink Too Much On A Date. Although you might be tempted to throw back several back in an effort to relax, or maybe he’s plying you with really great wine, you want to stay clear and focused at all times (usually more than two drinks will cloud a girl’s judgement).

Besides, if it’s a really great date, you’ll want to remember every second of it. 

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                  Do You Think You’re Drinking Way Too Much Wine?


7) Thou Shalt Not Be A Gold Digger. Don’t You DARE ask or hint for anything of monetary value!

If he offers to buy you something without so much as a hint from you, go ahead and accept it, but make sure there are no strings attached, and be ready to give it back if he starts trying to PULL those strings. If he offers you cash, however, never, I repeat, NEVER accept it.

If he offer to pay a bill you’ve been struggling with, DON’T let him do it. Besides, what do we call women who accept money from men? (what’s that garden tool called)?

This is very important: you are NOT considered a gold digger if you expect him to pay for the dates.

If he expects you to pay or split the check or talks about moving in together and splitting the rent (“We should live together, it will be cheaper”), RUN as fast as you can! (he’s not marriage material).

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    You Know You Want It…But DON’T Take It!


8) Thou Shalt Act Like A Lady. No cussin’, No sratchin’. No belchin’, No fartin’ and No sittin’ with your legs spread wide.

This may sound obvious, but there are many of you who does just that. Most men want their women to be refined and don’t want to hear a stream of f-words spewing from their lips.

Acting like a lady involves being polite and following common laws of courtesy, such as saying “please”, “thank you”, and “excuse me”. You must also be prompt and not make him wait no more than ten minutes for you.


9) Thou Shalt Express Sincere Interest And Appreciation Men like genuine compliments just as much as you do (maybe even more), so don’t be afraid to tell him he’s handsome, interesting, or funny. But don’t go overboard!

Once you decide you like this guy after several dates, it’s important to show your appreciation by maybe cooking him dinner at your place.

10) Thou Shalt Not Become Intimate On The First Date. If you’re interested in him, there’s nothing wrong with a little nookie – and by that I mean hugs and kisses. 

But if this one has keeper potential, it’s best to take it slow and get to know him first, for at least three months, or until in the sober light of day, he suggests a monogamous relationship.

How many times have you heard that pitiful line; “But of course, you’re the only one” while he’s frantically fumbling with your bra after one too many margaritas?

He really want to get a good look at you, in the flesh. But until you have ‘The Conversation’ about exclusivity, just assume he’s going out with other women.

And by the way, as long as you are not exclusive, you have the right to date as many other men as you want. So it works both ways. 

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     Couple Relaxing Under The Sunset On First Date.


So there you have it! Just remember ladies, by following the ten commandments of dating for women, there’s a very slim chance you won’t get used and you’ll gain more awareness.


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Author | Ronald Kennedy Comments | 14 Date | 11/14/2017

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Hahaha…I love it, Ronald!!!

I especially like #2, “Thou Shall Honor Thou Dating Committments”. I take being a woman of my word very seriously, so it would have to be some sort of emergency that would cause me to cancel. This also shows the person your level of respect for them; if I’m canceling plans at the last minute, it means that I don’t respect that person’s time.

#4 is a powerful one as well. If I take the lead in the beginning, I shouldn’t expect for him to magically take over. It ain’t gonna happen!

05/25/2017 | 4:59 am

    Ronald Kennedy

    Hi Veronica and thanks for commenting. Ah yes….the ‘Wonderful World of Dating.” Doesn’t get any better than this! LOL. Yes Veronica, we all know what we want and expect, when it comes down to getting ourselves involved with a future prospect.

    But what we expect isn’t necessarily what we get! When it comes down to new relationships, we look for the best in the other person and hope everything will work out fine. But you never know. Some folks, as you say yourself, are true to their word and expect the other person to do the same.

    I understand things come up in our lives and we just don’t have control over certain situations. We can only do what we can, and hopefully the other person will understand. But like you say, respect is of the up-most importance. Respect goes a long way.

    Thanks again Veronica for checking in. Let me know if i can do anything else for you.

    05/25/2017 | 11:54 pm


I agree with all of this for the most part. Especially showing appreciation. One of the first things unnoticed about my wife was how much gratitude she showed. She always said thank you when anyone did or provided anything for her. It was a nice breath of fresh air after a string of dating women who thought the world owes them something.

Where I like offer an opposing opinion is talking about the past. Sure, I don’t no want to hear the intimate details of past relationships, but why have rules that keep the conversation at a small talk level? The sooner you open up about your past, the sooner you can find out if there’s a real connection there. Also, I don’t want to date someone with a trucker’s mouth, but I think it’s cute when girls cuss a little. Shows they’re not a prude.

Just my thoughts. Doesn’t apply to every one.

08/05/2017 | 10:05 am

    Ronald Kennedy

    Hi Dustin Thanks for checking back in with me again. Hope all is well. I’m glad you were able to get something out of my article. I know many women would not want to follow any type of rules (they’d rather just do their own thing). But hey, having some rules in places seem to make certain decisions much easier.

    Dustin, you mention appreciation. I think appreciation towards others goes a long way in a relationship. A woman is more loved by her spouse when she shows that side of her. (That’s one of the qualities I would look for in a woman as well) Sounds like you have a good woman Dustin.

    Also, this gesture work both ways. Women would like to see their man more appreciative. This adds additional strength to the relationship. 

    As far as the rule goes where women shouldn’t be ‘too vocal’ involving discussions of past relationships, I feel it would cause friction between them. Most guys don’t want to hear that crap! Maybe some don’t care. Let the past be the past! Just work on your current situation. And the potty mouth type?…well, a little foulness won’t hurt! (that may come in handy during love-making)lol.

    Thanks again my friend for checking in again. Keep in touch.

    08/07/2017 | 5:02 am


Great read! Although I am a man I came across your site looking for my own answers. So I just read your article Ten Commandments Of Dating For Women..
Seems to me some of these ideas should apply both ways!
Overall I think this is sage advice, do you have any articles like this for men that you could recommend?

09/17/2017 | 2:33 pm

    Ronald Kennedy

    Hi Brendon, how are you, my friend. Thanks for dropping by to comment. Although you’re a guy, at least, you got some insight in dealing with a woman’s situation. Issues, when it comes to dating, they have to address sooner or later, down the road.

    Just because a woman is married, sometime that relationship may not be as tight and solid as they would hope for. Next thing you know, there they are back out into the single world. You are right and I agree that in certain situations, things can possibly go both ways. 

    Brendon, you mention that you’d like to read other articles geared for men. Well my friend, here are two I recently wrote and published on my site. Check them out and let me know what you think.

    09/17/2017 | 3:29 pm

Nate Glick

what a great list of commandments! As a guy I couldnt help but giggle a little but at a few of these passed on the fact on how true they are. The thought of the girl I date having sex with another man is definately not somewhere I would want to go, so that is so spot on! Ladies, these are great tips so pay attention!!

11/28/2017 | 3:16 am

    Ronald Kennedy

    Hi Nate, how are you? Thanks for dropping by. This list of commandments for women should open up many females eyeballs. It should help lead them down a more organized path when it comes down to hooking up with the opposite sex. 

    Is there a lot of truth in that list.You bet! Of course, a little humor is always thrown in just to keep things a little amusing. (This is the only way I write). Of course, there are those who feel to take matters into their own hands. With me being a guy, I can maneuver women’s actions with this list, with focus on the expectations of men and how women should respond accordingly. 

    But you know, people are people and will do what they feel is right. Many make their own rules (not always the best route, but their own rules never the less). Also, some women can never be satisfied with just one man.

    You mentioned you could never vision a woman you’re dating laying up and ‘banging’ another man. I don’t know of any man who would like that (unless it’s some dude that just don’t care or a weirdo). 

    Nate, you should read my other article, “What Men Hate About Women” https://lovefolks.com/what-men

    Let me know what you think. (there’s also a few other questions in there, of what women would ask of men). So Nate at this time, I’d like to thank you again for stopping by. Let me know if you have any other questions.

    11/29/2017 | 4:24 am


hey hope you doing great
these are a very helpful steps and easy to follow
We should follow the heart do the thing we feel right and what make us feel good.
And never to force ourselves in a relation because nothing worth it only our happiness .
thanks a lot for that post keep the hard work up
and try to summarize it next time.

12/29/2017 | 12:36 pm

    Ronald Kennedy

    Hi Aysha How are you? Doing great myself. Thank you for stopping by and commenting. I always try to put in a touch of humor in all my writings (always make my readings more enjoyable). These steps were written to assist  ladies on how to put their best foot forward. As men, we watch and observe! Most respectable men expect respectable behavior from women on a certain level.

    We like classy ladies. (at least, I do.) I can’t speak speak for all men. As for a couple of my friends actions, who only believe in getting a woman on her back for one thing and one thing only! 

    I know there’s an old saying that ‘rules are meant to be broken.’ And that may very well be true. But if these rules are followed by ladies seeking long term relationships, then chances run high that the potential mate will stick around for the long haul and want to get to know you better.

    Please share this with others. Thanks for commenting Aysha. Let me know if I can help you with anything else.


    12/29/2017 | 11:19 pm

Deanna Martin

Hi Ron, Very interesting article. I like your niche, very unique.
Most of us women could have used the commandments to help us adjust to being single and dating again. I know I could have. Very well written, like the simplicity of the theme. Not confusing.
How did you come up with the 10 commandments? Thanks, Deanna

01/12/2018 | 1:05 pm

    Ronald Kennedy

    Hi Deanna, how are you? Glad you were able to stop by and give me a comment on my post. I put a lot into my writings to make them enjoyable to others. I’m glad you found it interesting. Once a long time married guy (now a widower), and back in the day a ‘ladies man,’ I’ve studied women actions over the years.

    Now don’t get me wrong, I love women just like any other normal man would, but they can be hard to deal with sometime. Men have to walk on thin ice to stay on her good side. Men expect women to behave in a certain, likable and pleasant way. And I’m sure women feel the same towards men. But single women should follow a certain protocol to achieve the successful hookup with a potential mate.

    So after putting all my research in a big mixing bowl, lol. this is how I came up with the Ten Commandments rule list. But remember Deanna, rules are meant to be broken! I feel what’s important for the single woman is the ones she choose to break!!

    01/12/2018 | 11:40 pm


Thank you for the ten commandments. I just realized that I have been breaking commandment numbers 3 and 7 most of the times. I think sometimes I get possessive and take the lead. Lol.. I didn’t know this was to my disadvantage. Now I know better and will stick to the ten commandments in my next relationship. Keep up the good work.

08/07/2018 | 3:32 am

    Ronald Kennedy

    ‘LET THE TEN COMMANDMENTS GUIDE YOU’ Emmy…for better or for worse! Ladies, if you have to, break as less rules as possible. Life will be much easier and your dating, with all the techniques that go along with it, much more managable. The rules you mentioned breaking are proberly popular among other ladies as well. But I guess everyones different.

    08/07/2018 | 11:44 pm

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