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These are helpful throughout the socializing process. 

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                 Woman studying her guide notes

You’re an aging, married women whose headed for divorce. Those 12 years of marriage were the worst years of your life!

Periodically, you talk with your best friend about your situation, sobbing about the marriage that went sour. Your friend, who’s a pro when it comes to dating and never married, makes you out a list of rules a woman should follow. You clip the list inside your favorite book for a future read and study of these rules. Now the ‘Ten Commandments of Dating For Women’ are put into place.

You try to prepare yourself for that inevitable divorce and then, the single world. But you’re rusty! It’s been a while since you’ve dated and you’re aware things change. You understand there are good guys and bad guys out there.

Either way, you want to do the right thing in the right way. In many situations, most women are clueless to the dating game. Many need guidance to rectify the situation.

Now as a soon to be single woman, maybe more romance would be in order.

You are new to dating and following your friends tips would be very helpful. No matter your age, race, or religion, they are set in stone just like the ones Moses received on Mount Sinai, and you break them at your own peril.

Now ladies let us begin:

1) Thou Shalt Return Calls Promptly. Return a potential’s call within 24 to 48 hours on weekdays, or 72 hours on weekends or holidays. Forget whatever Rules you’ve read, busy men get perturbed if they don’t hear back from you within that time frame.

If you’re missing each others calls, or if your text go unanswered, hear his explanation. It might be legit. But don’t complain or scold him.

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     Girl calling guy trying to find out, “What’s Up?”

 

2) Thou Shalt Honor Thy Dating Commitments. Nobody likes a flake. When a man you think you might be interested in musters up the courage to ask you out (and believe me, it never gets any easier for a guy, no matter how experienced he is), you must make a plain with him and stick to it.

NOTE: If you meet a man who doesn’t honor his dating commitments and is a double looker or best-offer boy, then he is not worth your time, love, or patience.

 

3) Thou Shalt Let The Man Take The Lead. Let him call you first. Let him ask you out first. If he’s shy, feel free to invite him to a party or a group event, but let him be the one to make the first move and suggest the first date.

Let him feel he’s cleverly tracking you by suggesting where and when your first several dates will happen. Ladies remember, if you want to be romanced, let the man lead  – there’s no way around that.

If you don’t let the man lead, you’ll turn him into a couch potato.

4) In The Beginning, Thou Shalt Leave The Past In The Past. Any long talks of past marriages, old boyfriends or girlfriends is strictly taboo at first (and forever, if you can get away with it).

Men can’t help it – they will picture you naked and having sex with some other guy, and they’d really rather not go there. 

5) Thou Shalt Be Engaging. Focus your attention on him – don’t let your eyes or interest wander, even if the waiter has the most adorable butt you’ve ever seen.
Let him look into those baby blues, big browns, or gorgeous greens and make sure you gaze into his and make good conversation.

Ladies, here’s a great tip! For every three questions he ask you, ask one back. 

If you let the man lead the conversation and give him home-court advantage, his chest will puff up, and other organs too! If you talk 50-50, it will neutralize the sex factor, and if you talk more than he does, he’ll go to sleep.

6) Thou Shalt Not Drink Too Much On A Date. Although you might be tempted to throw back several back in an effort to relax, or maybe he’s plying you with really great wine, you want to stay clear and focused at all times (usually more than two drinks will cloud a girl’s judgement).

Besides, if it’s a really great date, you’ll want to remember every second of it. 

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                  Do You Think You’re Drinking Way Too Much Wine?

 

7) Thou Shalt Not Be A Gold Digger. Don’t You DARE ask or hint for anything of monetary value!

If he offers to buy you something without so much as a hint from you, go ahead and accept it, but make sure there are no strings attached, and be ready to give it back if he starts trying to PULL those strings. If he offers you cash, however, never, I repeat, NEVER accept it.

If he offer to pay a bill you’ve been struggling with, DON’T let him do it. Besides, what do we call women who accept money from men? (what’s that garden tool called)?

This is very important: you are NOT considered a gold digger if you expect him to pay for the dates.

If he expects you to pay or split the check or talks about moving in together and splitting the rent (“We should live together, it will be cheaper”), RUN as fast as you can! (he’s not marriage material).

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    You Know You Want It…But DON’T Take It!

 

8) Thou Shalt Act Like A Lady. No cussin’, No sratchin’. No belchin’, No fartin’ and No sittin’ with your legs spread wide.

This may sound obvious, but there are many of you who does just that. Most men want their women to be refined and don’t want to hear a stream of f-words spewing from their lips.

Acting like a lady involves being polite and following common laws of courtesy, such as saying “please”, “thank you”, and “excuse me”. You must also be prompt and not make him wait no more than ten minutes for you.

 

9) Thou Shalt Express Sincere Interest And Appreciation Men like genuine compliments just as much as you do (maybe even more), so don’t be afraid to tell him he’s handsome, interesting, or funny. But don’t go overboard!

Once you decide you like this guy after several dates, it’s important to show your appreciation by maybe cooking him dinner at your place.

10) Thou Shalt Not Become Intimate On The First Date. If you’re interested in him, there’s nothing wrong with a little nookie – and by that I mean hugs and kisses. 

But if this one has keeper potential, it’s best to take it slow and get to know him first, for at least three months, or until in the sober light of day, he suggests a monogamous relationship.

How many times have you heard that pitiful line; “But of course, you’re the only one” while he’s frantically fumbling with your bra after one too many margaritas?

He really want to get a good look at you, in the flesh. But until you have ‘The Conversation’ about exclusivity, just assume he’s going out with other women.

And by the way, as long as you are not exclusive, you have the right to date as many other men as you want. So it works both ways. 

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     Couple Relaxing Under The Sunset On First Date.

 

So there you have it! Just remember ladies, by following the ten commandments of dating for women, there’s a very slim chance you won’t get used and you’ll gain more awareness.

 

(See Ladies! Beware of the danger signs)

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Veronica

Hahaha…I love it, Ronald!!!

I especially like #2, “Thou Shall Honor Thou Dating Committments”. I take being a woman of my word very seriously, so it would have to be some sort of emergency that would cause me to cancel. This also shows the person your level of respect for them; if I’m canceling plans at the last minute, it means that I don’t respect that person’s time.

#4 is a powerful one as well. If I take the lead in the beginning, I shouldn’t expect for him to magically take over. It ain’t gonna happen!

05/25/2017 | 4:59 am
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    Ronald Kennedy

    Hi Veronica and thanks for commenting. Ah yes….the ‘Wonderful World of Dating.” Doesn’t get any better than this! LOL. Yes Veronica, we all know what we want and expect, when it comes down to getting ourselves involved with a future prospect.

    But what we expect isn’t necessarily what we get! When it comes down to new relationships, we look for the best in the other person and hope everything will work out fine. But you never know. Some folks, as you say yourself, are true to their word and expect the other person to do the same.

    I understand things come up in our lives and we just don’t have control over certain situations. We can only do what we can, and hopefully the other person will understand. But like you say, respect is of the up-most importance. Respect goes a long way.

    Thanks again Veronica for checking in. Let me know if i can do anything else for you.

    05/25/2017 | 11:54 pm
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Dustin

I agree with all of this for the most part. Especially showing appreciation. One of the first things unnoticed about my wife was how much gratitude she showed. She always said thank you when anyone did or provided anything for her. It was a nice breath of fresh air after a string of dating women who thought the world owes them something.

Where I like offer an opposing opinion is talking about the past. Sure, I don’t no want to hear the intimate details of past relationships, but why have rules that keep the conversation at a small talk level? The sooner you open up about your past, the sooner you can find out if there’s a real connection there. Also, I don’t want to date someone with a trucker’s mouth, but I think it’s cute when girls cuss a little. Shows they’re not a prude.

Just my thoughts. Doesn’t apply to every one.

08/05/2017 | 10:05 am
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    Ronald Kennedy

    Hi Dustin Thanks for checking back in with me again. Hope all is well. I’m glad you were able to get something out of my article. I know many women would not want to follow any type of rules (they’d rather just do their own thing). But hey, having some rules in places seem to make certain decisions much easier.

    Dustin, you mention appreciation. I think appreciation towards others goes a long way in a relationship. A woman is more loved by her spouse when she shows that side of her. (That’s one of the qualities I would look for in a woman as well) Sounds like you have a good woman Dustin.

    Also, this gesture work both ways. Women would like to see their man more appreciative. This adds additional strength to the relationship. 

    As far as the rule goes where women shouldn’t be ‘too vocal’ involving discussions of past relationships, I feel it would cause friction between them. Most guys don’t want to hear that crap! Maybe some don’t care. Let the past be the past! Just work on your current situation. And the potty mouth type?…well, a little foulness won’t hurt! (that may come in handy during love-making)lol.

    Thanks again my friend for checking in again. Keep in touch.

    08/07/2017 | 5:02 am
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Brendon

Great read! Although I am a man I came across your site looking for my own answers. So I just read your article Ten Commandments Of Dating For Women..
Seems to me some of these ideas should apply both ways!
Overall I think this is sage advice, do you have any articles like this for men that you could recommend?
Brendon

09/17/2017 | 2:33 pm
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    Ronald Kennedy

    Hi Brendon, how are you, my friend. Thanks for dropping by to comment. Although you’re a guy, at least, you got some insight in dealing with a woman’s situation. Issues, when it comes to dating, they have to address sooner or later, down the road.

    Just because a woman is married, sometime that relationship may not be as tight and solid as they would hope for. Next thing you know, there they are back out into the single world. You are right and I agree that in certain situations, things can possibly go both ways. 

    Brendon, you mention that you’d like to read other articles geared for men. Well my friend, here are two I recently wrote and published on my site. Check them out and let me know what you think.

    09/17/2017 | 3:29 pm
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Nate Glick

what a great list of commandments! As a guy I couldnt help but giggle a little but at a few of these passed on the fact on how true they are. The thought of the girl I date having sex with another man is definately not somewhere I would want to go, so that is so spot on! Ladies, these are great tips so pay attention!!

11/28/2017 | 3:16 am
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    Ronald Kennedy

    Hi Nate, how are you? Thanks for dropping by. This list of commandments for women should open up many females eyeballs. It should help lead them down a more organized path when it comes down to hooking up with the opposite sex. 

    Is there a lot of truth in that list.You bet! Of course, a little humor is always thrown in just to keep things a little amusing. (This is the only way I write). Of course, there are those who feel to take matters into their own hands. With me being a guy, I can maneuver women’s actions with this list, with focus on the expectations of men and how women should respond accordingly. 

    But you know, people are people and will do what they feel is right. Many make their own rules (not always the best route, but their own rules never the less). Also, some women can never be satisfied with just one man.

    You mentioned you could never vision a woman you’re dating laying up and ‘banging’ another man. I don’t know of any man who would like that (unless it’s some dude that just don’t care or a weirdo). 

    Nate, you should read my other article, “What Men Hate About Women” https://lovefolks.com/what-men

    Let me know what you think. (there’s also a few other questions in there, of what women would ask of men). So Nate at this time, I’d like to thank you again for stopping by. Let me know if you have any other questions.

    11/29/2017 | 4:24 am
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aysha

hey hope you doing great
these are a very helpful steps and easy to follow
We should follow the heart do the thing we feel right and what make us feel good.
And never to force ourselves in a relation because nothing worth it only our happiness .
thanks a lot for that post keep the hard work up
and try to summarize it next time.

12/29/2017 | 12:36 pm
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    Ronald Kennedy

    Hi Aysha How are you? Doing great myself. Thank you for stopping by and commenting. I always try to put in a touch of humor in all my writings (always make my readings more enjoyable). These steps were written to assist  ladies on how to put their best foot forward. As men, we watch and observe! Most respectable men expect respectable behavior from women on a certain level.

    We like classy ladies. (at least, I do.) I can’t speak speak for all men. As for a couple of my friends actions, who only believe in getting a woman on her back for one thing and one thing only! 

    I know there’s an old saying that ‘rules are meant to be broken.’ And that may very well be true. But if these rules are followed by ladies seeking long term relationships, then chances run high that the potential mate will stick around for the long haul and want to get to know you better.

    Please share this with others. Thanks for commenting Aysha. Let me know if I can help you with anything else.

     

    12/29/2017 | 11:19 pm
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Deanna Martin

Hi Ron, Very interesting article. I like your niche, very unique.
Most of us women could have used the commandments to help us adjust to being single and dating again. I know I could have. Very well written, like the simplicity of the theme. Not confusing.
How did you come up with the 10 commandments? Thanks, Deanna

01/12/2018 | 1:05 pm
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    Ronald Kennedy

    Hi Deanna, how are you? Glad you were able to stop by and give me a comment on my post. I put a lot into my writings to make them enjoyable to others. I’m glad you found it interesting. Once a long time married guy (now a widower), and back in the day a ‘ladies man,’ I’ve studied women actions over the years.

    Now don’t get me wrong, I love women just like any other normal man would, but they can be hard to deal with sometime. Men have to walk on thin ice to stay on her good side. Men expect women to behave in a certain, likable and pleasant way. And I’m sure women feel the same towards men. But single women should follow a certain protocol to achieve the successful hookup with a potential mate.

    So after putting all my research in a big mixing bowl, lol. this is how I came up with the Ten Commandments rule list. But remember Deanna, rules are meant to be broken! I feel what’s important for the single woman is the ones she choose to break!!

    01/12/2018 | 11:40 pm
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Emmy

Thank you for the ten commandments. I just realized that I have been breaking commandment numbers 3 and 7 most of the times. I think sometimes I get possessive and take the lead. Lol.. I didn’t know this was to my disadvantage. Now I know better and will stick to the ten commandments in my next relationship. Keep up the good work.

08/07/2018 | 3:32 am
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    Ronald Kennedy

    ‘LET THE TEN COMMANDMENTS GUIDE YOU’ Emmy…for better or for worse! Ladies, if you have to, break as less rules as possible. Life will be much easier and your dating, with all the techniques that go along with it, much more managable. The rules you mentioned breaking are proberly popular among other ladies as well. But I guess everyones different.

    08/07/2018 | 11:44 pm
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Lakeisha Collins

Bravo! These rules need to be posted for the world to see! I find that women can tend to be either so desperate to have a man that they will accept anyone no matter what kind of a man he obviously is, or they set the standards so high that no man could ever meet the challenge. This is a balanced view of how to get into the dating world, have fun, keep your dignity, and get what you want without compromising your basic needs. Thanks for sharing!

07/29/2019 | 9:32 pm
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    Ronald Kennedy

    Hi Lakeisha, thank you for reading my post. I guess you can always resort to the fact that ‘rules were made to be broken,’ but that’s not always the case. These rules should be cast in stone and abided by all ladies out here on the dating scene. Keeping your dignity and self-respect should always be in the mix. Please share my article with others.

    07/29/2019 | 10:23 pm
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crownwole

This ten commandment on how to select a compatable mate is great for aspiring couples. The writer cut my attention to calls return promptly. I always find it difficult to return calls and the commitment part too. The part that talk about let the man take the lead is difficult for some ladies to adhere to and why? Some of them feels that they are to big to submit. And also thanks for the info on leaving the past in the past. I don’t like talking about my past in a relationship I’m into.

07/29/2019 | 11:48 pm
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    Ronald Kennedy

    Hey my friend,Crownwole that last one you mentioned is something I too stay away from. What’s in the past, stay in the past (Don’t wanna start no shit.) Sometime women expect a lot from us guys. But if they follow the rules designed specifically for them, then the world of dating and relationships would be a better place.

    07/30/2019 | 1:24 am
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Michel

Wow, interesting read and great to see that not much has changed when it comes to the rules of dating. It’s nice to know that men still like a lady and that you don’t have to hit the sack on the first date.

It must feel really awkward getting back into the dating scene after many years of marriage. I would probably be too scared to try. Taking it slow is I think the best advice and even going out in groups of friends is sometimes better to start out with than getting straight back into one on one dating.

07/29/2019 | 11:53 pm
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    Ronald Kennedy

    Michel, I was married for 37 years. After my wife died back in 2015, I found myself back in the dating scene at 66. I felt a little out of whack at first, but I slowly started getting it together. Life goes on. Nothing really was that different regarding dating. (Same old crap, different year,) Now i find myself getting a little wild like I did when I was in my early 30’s. before i got married.

    07/30/2019 | 1:37 am
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Teodor

Hi Ronald, nice article. I believe this advice you shared is great and following these 10 rules increases a woman’s chances of social and matrimonial success. 

As I see it, one of the most important of these rules is the last one, “Thou Shalt Not Become Intimate On The First Date” because some men may be looking for a fast approach and try to get their date to in their bed as soon as possible and these men are not the ones a woman with strong principles should be looking for. By adopting a slight “hard-to-get” attitude a woman puts her date to some kind of patience test and the better will he act during the test, the bigger the potential of building a strong, long lasting, emotional satisfactory relationship will be.

Another important idea for me is “Thou Shalt Let The Man Take The Lead”. As a man, I can tell you women who let the man take over control are much more appealing on a first date. It is natural for a man to want to lead, so letting him have what nature gave him is a very good starting point for building a trust-based long term relationship.

Finally, I think the most important thing for a woman is to be herself and try to act as natural as possible on a first date. Even if you might think you are not too interesting, being honest and sincere will make way more attractive than you may think.

07/30/2019 | 12:07 am
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    Ronald Kennedy

    Hey my friend Teodor, U couldn’t have said it better. Some women give in too soon to guys sexual advances, then wonder why guys don’t respect them. They’re too eager to please ( Unless the woman is trying to make a ‘quick buck’.) If that was the case, NO man wants that type of woman for a main, steady lady anyway! Remember guys, before you fall in love with that type, you can’t make a ‘housewife’ out of a ‘whore.’

    07/30/2019 | 1:17 pm
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Stella

These are very important guide to follow. Am very sure it will be of help if applied. Many girls make one silly mistake of becoming intimate with a guy at the first date. That is a sign of cheapness and am very sure that not all that kind of relationship last long. I usually term it as lust date not love date. 

You said when a guy demand for sharing of bill, we should run for our life, what if I don’t allow him to pay our bill because I have the money and after the argument, I decided that each and every one should pay their own bill instead and he agreed, is there any crime in that? Though, many ladies usually also fall for this, they expect guy to settle all the bills.

07/30/2019 | 12:08 am
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    Ronald Kennedy

    Well Stella, in regards to who pay or shouldn’t pay the bill, that should be a compromised and understandable decision among all parties (Sounds like a court case.)LOL! By society’s standards, the man always accept the meal check. But if both agree to split the bill on food & drinks, I see no problem with it. (Now-a-day, I think that’s becoming kind of normal and most couples prefer it this way, especially in early dating.)

    07/30/2019 | 1:38 pm
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Boniface-AndroidBix

Hi, hoping you are well.

This is an interesting read and being a man, you’ve made me see the dos and don’ts of new relationships from a woman’s perspective. 

I confirm those points are true because a man will want to be treated as one from day one. Yelling, spewing dirty words, regulary not receiving/retuning calls (this is a big one by the way), drinking (many times when a man offers to buy you drinks they want to see if you qualify for a life long marriage relationship- you drink, you’re done), and those other things you’ve mentioned are all important. 

One more thing- keeping time. This is huge also. 

Again, before you are sure of a marriage commitment, always use a long wooden spoon when it comes to proximity. Keep him guessing, do not be easy. Men like challenges so that they’ll feel victorious when finally- even if it’s a few years down the line- they are able to present you as wife to those that matter to them most. Men know how to count the cost. The higher the cost, the more valuable the gem. What is valuable is hidden. That’s a principle of life. What’s of low value is left exposed anywhere and everywhere.

Boniface- AndroidBix 

07/30/2019 | 12:12 am
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    Ronald Kennedy

    Yes, my friend. Well stated. My post can inform a man of any move a woman may come out of a bag on. They will be prepared for the good and the bad. A woman will keep herself in check and at the same time observe her date for any slip ups. Until the guy become more relax, (Maybe after a few dates), then things will start smoothing out over time. I guess you can say both are watching each other. 

    07/31/2019 | 1:54 am
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Kat

Hey, I have to agree that the list you provide here and on point. It’s actually great to have a list of rules that can give one a guide to how to conduct oneself on a date. Especially as times change. It could have been a few years since you’ve been on the dating scene. I think this list is actually quite current, and will hold the test of time. I especially like the thou shalt be engaging. And it works both ways. I mean, it is simple communication skills as well as showing that you are interested in him as well as he being interested in you. Communication is the basis of all relationships which is why I value this one highly and am glad you’ve included it.  I also think many women need to know to expect to pay for themselves, as this can be a bit confusing for some, so this is also an excellent tip. Thanks for sharing this helpful list and well written :). 

07/30/2019 | 8:56 pm
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    Ronald Kennedy

    Hey Kat, I guess since these rules aren’t set in stone, they can be broken. Just like any other rules that’s incorporated for us in society to follow. (But hell! What do I know??)LOL! But in regards to all that I’ve written, communication is of the up-most important action among couples. Not enough of this going on to solidify a good relationship. I guess good, happy and solid relationships are hard to find!

    08/01/2019 | 8:32 pm
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Marlene

Your list is so valuable to someone like me.  I have been single for many years, and I am scared to start the dating game.  I see from your list a few mistakes I certainly would have made had I started dating yet.  The first one would have been the alcohol,  just 2 glasses of wine are already too much for me, so in my case, I should have only one, or none at all.   

I find your site fascinating and I’ll be looking around and exploring everything.  Thank you, I surely need your help and I am sure I am not the only one out there.  Thank you.  

07/31/2019 | 2:58 am
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    Ronald Kennedy

    Thank you Marlene for the kind compliments. Glad my article can move you forward to starting some involvement within the dating arena. Just relax. It’s not that bad! You’ll never know who you may run across. Just follow the rules closely whenever you feel ready to date. Print them out and carry them with u. (You never know when the need will arise where you have to take a peek at your notes.)  

    08/01/2019 | 9:01 pm
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