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You say, “I’ve found that special someone I’ve been searching for all my life!”


            Couple in the early stages of a relationship.

It just feels right and one can say otherwise! We all go through rough times meeting the opposite sex (or in some cases, the same sex).

This is the best day of your life. No doubt about it! The sights are set on that special person giving you the thrill of the moment! Men loving women in a special way, regardless of age! Like I said earlier, It also depends on your sexual preference. It also could be women loving women (hey, whatever floats your boat)!

But soon as reality sets in, you come to your senses. You just met this person while getting your Sunday morning paper!

(If someone pulled out a copy of Webster’s dictionary and wanted to look up the definition of a ‘Stupid Idiot’, guess whose photo would pop up??)

Regardless, if it’s a man and woman or same sex couple, it reMen-Loving-Womenally doesn’t matter! Love is Love…no matter how you look at it! There’s someone for everybody!


One of the biggest self-improvements that we can make in our life is selecting the right mate.

Once we find that woman and start building a relationship throughout this building process, we have to know how to stay on her good side to keep the peace within the home.

Our thinking patterns are different when it comes down to sexes. Picking someone we’re compatible with eases all pain of loneliness.

Seeking someone on the rebound…


Trying to find folks ‘on the re-bound’ only means being with someone who can fill the void after they too, have being dumped!  Sometimes hooking up way too quickly is not good!

Time must be taken out to know him or her. The only thing on your mind is being lonely again! But lets face it, it’s more than just a lonely thing. You get a little horny as well! This is your brain on sex and really, at the moment, that’s all that’s important!

Careful consideration must be in order, when selecting that perfect mate. Certain expectations must be met. (just don’t get too picky. The ‘arena of loneliness‘ can be a rough place).

The process of finding someone who’s nice and maybe a little interesting, can become a big task but is very doable.

As a busy, single person, regardless if male or female and perhaps raising a child, it’s time to hit the dating scene.

The big night now approaches. Family and close friends at work, think it’s about time to get out and start enjoying life.


    “Hmmm….I wonder do she even know I’m alive?”

Maybe they’re right! A good night on the town would be great. Thinking, “I haven’t been out for several months, and my last date didn’t go very well,” might as well go for it. (As a male, you think that first one was just a ‘scatter-brain’. As a female, you think he was just a ‘plain loser.’)

Maybe this time will be different. (trashing the whole idea and just staying home wasn’t ruled out either).

That inner voice was saying something different. Maybe it’s because going out was never interesting. Why now? After three years, “What the hell. All chicks can’t be as bad as that last ‘gold-digger.’ If you’re a woman, you just want to give the dude a chance to prove himself a winner.

The night ends! Returning home early, although being pissed off, was the best feeling ever. The whole evening was a disaster! Oh, the sexes!

This scenario happens to us all at some point in our lives. A  guy may complain that, “She talked too much and he couldn’t get any.”

For the woman, it may be; “He grew and extra set of hands and was all over me. Also, that cheap jive turkey, had the nerve to make me pay for dinner.”“There’s got to be a better way!

(See Ladies, beware of the danger signs)

There’s Got To Be A Better Way…


Now while everything about the evening is still fresh in mind, you sit down at the table with a bagel and a cup of java. Or maybe a cold can of beer, some weed and develop a solution.

So after banging away at the keyboard into the wee hours of the morning, ‘PRESTO!’…a series of Profile Classification Interpretations is born!

What this mean is that list of patterns and traits of the opposite sex was developed. Armed with this newfound information, a person will always be on their toes. Ready for anything! No surprises!!

Let’s start with a potential mate’s Vital Statistics (a person’s outward physical appearance is going to be the first thing that’s noticed).

For starters, looking for someone with nice teeth and hair is important. It’s a turn-off when someone flashes a big smile and it looks like their tongue is in jail.

The next thing noticed is that one leg is shorter than the other. Oh boy! The only thing that comes to mind at this point, is calling your best friend and telling him or her they’re gonna get their ass kicked for setting up this blind date.

This newly created Profile Classification Interpretations is something everyone needs. Be ready for your next big ‘night on the town!’



           Out for a little drinking and conversation.

Next, list types of Favorite Foods these folks may be in to. The kind of crap they’d chow on a daily basis.

What they consider their favorite and what’s considered your favorite food are two different things.

A constant night of puking is NOT what a fun night out is suppose to look like.

Most people have a normal taste in things, this potential mate may have the strangest taste in food that’s weird. Approach with caution!



Dude in his unheated apartment, trying to enjoy a bowl of chip monk stew, a smoke & some cheap alley wine.

A night out at a restaurant (your date might think it’s a nice joint), may end up becoming a trip to the emergency room. Keeping up with this person by eating the same type food may very well be the end. (not just the date, but your LIFE!)


Gimme Another Round…

Also, look out for that person who worship their Favorite Drinks (we’re not talking about a quick sipper either) who mainly is a lush that love to guzzle non-stop.


         The town drunk!

Man or woman, these type of folks drink alcohol like water. Sometimes it may be crazy concoctions that’s never been heard of and don’t want to try!

Then there’s the education factor regarding literature. aaahh…’the writings of enduring interest.’ What was the Last Book this individual ever read? (If they could even read at all).

But you’re one burnt out individual. Boy how time flies! You look up and see the early morning light peering through the blinds. Still so much to do. So much ground to cover.

So as you end your morning writings, breaking down all the different types of personalities wandering around our society today, you feel this will help thousands of lonely hearts and even some desperate folks, searching for true love and self-improvement in their life.


Women love having bigger boobs…


In today’s world, anything and everything can be purchased online. Even body parts! When it comes to an eager women, they can simply just contact a plastic surgeon who can do breast reconstruction. If the doctor refuses because of some health risk to them, they just go online.

Men love em’ and drool at their mere presence. (but hey, we can’t control our eyes).


       “Who’s man enough to handle these puppies?”

Just think, for a long time now, men have gotten a lot of grief when they talk to a woman’s chest instead of looking them in the eyes.

Mostly everybody has made that observation, so that men are terrified to look anywhere but directly into their eyes.

It’s not really fair to men.

First: It’s only natural for us men to wonder what a woman’s chest look like.

Men have testosterone for a reason, and if they don’t use it up looking at our chests, then they’ll be causing wars and football playoffs.

Second: Women are getting boob jobs left and right, so to speak. It’s a mixed message to spend all that money on a new and improved chest, then get angry when a man notices your purchase. Women can’t have it both ways.

Third: A man will spend so much time staring fixedly into a woman’s eyes that she’ll wonder if her eye makeup is sliding off or if there’s some type of a David Copperfield thing going on and is trying to mesmerize her. Hyp-no-tized! Men loving women at its best!

It’s tough to be a man with eyes, when breast are around.




(Also see What Men Hate About Women)

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Editor’s Note: This post was originally published on November 2, 2016 and has been completely revamped and updated for accuracy and comprehensiveness.

Author | Ronald Kennedy Comments | 51 Date | 11/05/2017

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Hi Ronald,

Such levity on a website is refreshing! However, I was lost on what your post was actually about. What was I to take from that post – as a male? Also, I feel your site is a catering toward a male demographic, since you are a male writing from your own perspective, with that said, your site seems a bit feminine in art style, as if you are catering toward a female demographic. Am I incorrect?

11/16/2016 | 9:24 pm

    Ronald Kennedy

    Hi Chris, and thanks for commenting. I try appealing to both sexes. All men have a soft or feminine side in them. A caring side. Although most would deny it, figuring it may damage their macho status. I guess my caring and softer side comes out in my posting of images. Some my post are written strictly for women, and some for men. One or two may hang in the balance and could go either way, depending on who’s reading. I hope this offer some clarity.

    11/16/2016 | 10:10 pm


Many years ago, I did look for love on a rebound. It was my first ex and it was painful to watch her leave me. That’s why I quickly wanted to move on to the next relationship so I don’t feel so alone watching everybody else matching themselves in pairs. As years pass by I also realized that that’s not the right thing to do, because I haven’t learned anything from the first relationship and I moved my problems to the next one. Thanks for the golden words my friend.

11/17/2016 | 7:24 am

    Ronald Kennedy

    Thank you Blame for commenting. Ah yes, those painful past relationships! So hard to let go, but life goes on. I’ve always said there’s ‘somebody for for everyone.’ Just have patience, it’ll come. Blame, I don’t know how your current relationship status is, but I also offer helpful information that could change your whole life around. “Make woman want you” is one I strongly recommend. Blame, If you feel that you ‘have it altogether’ and don’t need this, please pass this link and site, along to someone you feel it can help. Let me know how it goes.

    11/17/2016 | 1:33 pm


Man I really enjoy your articles. This one pretty serious and truthful. And again there is the funny part as well. You have described very well the main points on dating. I like that you do not censor yourself and write from the heart. I laughed a lot about how tough it is to be a man with eyes when women breasts are around. Very thoughtful. You covered all the controversial aspects of dating between men and women. And at the end what I liked most is that it becomes clear that it was a true story written in even a better way! Great! Keep doing your thing! You are definitely good at it!

11/22/2016 | 4:08 pm

    Ronald Kennedy

    Thanks again Sam for your kind words. There’s no sense in pulling punches and sugar coating a topic so real. Even when I expose my serious side,I still like to include a ‘splash’ of humor just to keep things light. Thank again for reading. Let me know if I can help you with anything. Sam, I also offer incredible information on my site, in regards to helping people seek love, compassion, and romance from the opposite sex.

    11/22/2016 | 11:27 pm


Did you do the cartoon on your page Ron? I loved it 🙂 I had a very long marriage, (27 years) and then a 6 year relationship before finding my current husband and love of my life. I found both my previous partner and my husband online, relatively quickly. I think honesty was the most important thing. So many people try to find their “perfect” mate and then think they have to make themselves appear better than they are to “catch them”. I did that with my first husband and was very unhappy for a lot of that 27 years. With the second two relationships I was myself and just let the relationships develop naturally and they have both been much more successful.

I think it’s lovely that you are trying to help people be more successful at finding relationships. A good relationship is the icing on top of life 🙂

11/27/2016 | 1:54 pm

    Ronald Kennedy

    Thank you Deb for your kind words and comments. All the artwork was done by me except for the ‘office love monkey’ & ‘the frogs’ from the other page. I love cartooning and been drawing for many years. I’m glad you were comfortable enough to share your past story. I see you’ve been through some changes. The great thing about it all is that you finally found ‘the love of your life.’ Congrats to you. A good solid relationship, filled with honesty, is the icing on the cake. Thank you again for stopping by Deb.

    Deb, If you feel my site can help someone you know, along with the material I offer here, please feel free to pass this info along.

    11/27/2016 | 4:25 pm


I personally found it very difficult to meet the perfect partner. In fact it took me over ten years to meet my wife. There are ups and downs in every relationship and if I am honest there are things I would like to change (but only small things). However, my wife also has so many strong qualities as well. So people should always bare in mind that if things are not perfect, then neither are they and we should all learn to tolerate those little imperfections.

12/07/2016 | 4:26 am

    Ronald Kennedy

    Hi Daniel and thanks for dropping by. I guess everyone don’t get it right the first time (including myself.) It’s good to know now you’ve found the ‘love of your life.’ I agree there are issues that arise among long standing couples and no relationship is perfect. What’s needed is to resolve things right away as they develop and not let things get to far out of hand. Couples should make sure they are on the same page when it comes down to making important decisions. Daniel, let me know if you have any questions. I’ll be happy to assist you.

    12/07/2016 | 1:00 pm

Salvatore V Jenkins Jr.

This was definitely a good read and the just of it was all true. I think even after we find the one we feel connected to or love there is still judgement and we just can’t help ourselves we are only human.

However at the end of the day in my opinion it’s about finding a friend that is willing to put up with your bad habits and you can deal with theirs’. Amongst all this both of you entertain each other and enjoy each others company.

Good Article!

12/11/2016 | 2:50 pm

    Ronald Kennedy

    Thank you Salvatore for commenting. Most folks don’t seem to realize that you first must become friends with your potential mate, before you become lovers. This action is what makes a strong and solid relationship. I agree with you Salvatore on the part about judging our mate. It seems no mater how long together, there’s still certain instances where you’re judging the others decision on particular matters.

    But for the most part, at the end of the day, it’s all good. Glad you enjoyed the article. So my friend, how’s your love life? I also offer some valuable and helpful info on my site. I strongly recommend you read this report, “How To Become An Alpha Male” by John Alexander, Again, thanks for checking in. Please share my site with others.

    12/12/2016 | 12:30 am


I came across this post whilst browsing, and wow this really made me laugh. What you said is so true of so many relationships – especially finding someone on the rebound!
I think the most important part of any relationship is sticking with it, understanding the person is different from you and accepting them and loving them for who they are. If you are always out looking for the ‘perfect’ one, you’ll never find them.

01/31/2017 | 6:50 am

    Ronald Kennedy

    Thank you Charlotte for running across my site. i guess It’s much better than you not seeing it at Glad you enjoyed the article. It’s amazing that after a hard breakup between couples, you figure somewhere down the line you’ll be picked up on the rebound. No effort will be placed on your part in regards to establishing a serious search. Compatibility is what’s ‘Key’ in any relationship. Second is trust.

    Some folks end up with losers from the start, then try sticking it out because the thought was put into their mind, they won’t find anyone else if they leave the relationship. So sad. But sometime things will work out for the better. Again Charlotte, thanks for commenting. Let me know if I can help you with anything else.

    01/31/2017 | 2:35 pm


It’s so true when you talk about people desperately looking for a replacement right after a horrible break up. I guess this isn’t the healthiest approach, as you are not trying to get to know your new partner inside out.

And yeah, men have testosterone for a reason. As a man, I can definitely vouch for that. I think women instinctively know this as well, I mean, just look at how much they put on themselves just to be attractive.

Another great article. Keep it up!

02/01/2017 | 5:04 pm

    Ronald Kennedy

    Thank you Farhan for commenting. In every relationship, things don’t always go as planned. There are gonna be ups and downs! When that big breakup hits, there you go; rushing to find that replacement. Some men and women, feel the need that they gotta have someone in their lives. (of course, like you said, never really having a good opportunity to know the person). You jump from the frying pan into the fire.

    And as far as men are concerned when it comes to the female anatomy, hey, they got those hot body parts for a reason! They go to great lengths to please. They love the attention!

    Thank you for checking in Farhan. Let me know if I could assist you with anything else.

    02/02/2017 | 4:44 am

Ariel Baradarian

You wrote something very important in the beginning. Correct me if I’m wrong, but you wrote that the problem with many relationships is that the guys and girls sometimes date initially because they get physically attracted to each other without seeing each other’s personalities, interests, goals, etc. As an Orthodox Jew who used to not be religious, I see the value of dating without physical contact (or limited) before marriage to solve this problem. When you limit the physical part, you are forced to focus on the person his/herself. You have to see them who they are, and it makes the relationship deeper and more meaningful.

02/10/2017 | 11:15 am

    Ronald Kennedy

    Thank you Ariel for checking in and commenting. As I stated before, a lot of folks that have been involved in long-term relationships and then suddenly over time, it’s over, they jump into another too fast. Many just can’t deal with the fact of being lonely. Never mind where their head is at, in regards to that ‘new person.’ They just gotta have someone in their life!

    They figure, as time go on, they’ll eventually get inside there new mate’s head and understand their likes, and dislikes, goals, what turns them on, etc; On the surface, they appear to be just what the doctor order, but underneath, they may not be what that person is really looking for. I agree, we all look for a deep and long lasting relationship from within, but there’s no guarantee things will necessarily turn out that way. Do you agree?

    Thank you my friend, for commenting. Let me know if you have any other questions or concerns.

    02/10/2017 | 6:31 pm


Whaha, you have a very unique writing style – very engaging and keeps one wondering what’s coming next.

But, yes, sometimes I just cannot understand why men and women were created to be so different! Because of this I decided to keep my life uncomplicated and just pass.

But it is quite entertaining having the ring seat in all the relationship issues between men and women.

For everyone else out there, hope you find what you are looking for in a partner!

03/09/2017 | 9:00 am

    Ronald Kennedy

    Hi Thia. Thanks for checking in and commenting. It sounds to me Thia, is that you’re ‘throwing in the towel’ regarding the relationship and dating scene. There’s always somebody for everybody. But with men seeking a certain type just as women, there’s that middle position that eventually erupts when two heads meet. No one seems to be satisfied with the out come. So the search continues. Playing it safe with no complications Thia, is the way to go!

    Again Thia, wanna thank you for dropping by. Let me know if I can assist you with anything else.

    03/09/2017 | 2:35 pm


I wasn’t sure to laugh, roll my eyes, or take this article seriously. It had plenty of funny parts, so you definitely made me laugh at all the different personalities you mention. I think men are much lonelier when they are out of a relationship than women, particularly as I’ve seen from experience. They need a relationship and they need sex, and they are relentless!

I’ve not been in a relationship for over 5 years now and I’m not lonely, nor am I even looking for a relationship at this point. I truly love my independence. It’s also amazing when you are single, you find many kindred souls – other people (mostly women) that find they don’t need a relationship either.

IMO, dating is totally overrated. Men love ogling beautiful women and women love shopping (including online) – you are spot on! What a great read – thank you for the entertainment!!

05/21/2017 | 5:10 pm

    Ronald Kennedy

    Hello Jen. Thank you for dropping in. I’m glad you enjoyed my writing Jen. I always try to instill humor when I write and at the same time, touch on the truth. I like folks to view a subject in a lighthearted way, but take it to heart. If someone say they got a good chuckle from my article, then I feel I’ve accomplished my goal.

    When it comes down to the single man or woman searching for their ‘soul mate’, the lonely mind-set can be a drawback. What I mean by this, depending on the length of time you’ve been flying solo, your search efforts seem not as urgent. You carry this mind-set that you’ll never find anyone, so therefore your search isn’t that swift.

    Jen, do you think that’s what you and your lady friends been going through over the past 5 years? When I view your pic Jen, you appear to be a nice looking woman, so I know you’re not single because of looks. Other personal issues’ perhaps? I don’t know. I always say there’s ‘somebody for everybody!’

    There are plenty of single (and lonely) dudes are here that would love to make a hook up with a beautiful woman. You mentioned as men, we gotta have a good relationship with plenty of hot sex! (..Yes,Yes)! But when it comes down to venturing out into the dating world, one must be careful about selecting the proper mate. Someone they plan on spending the rest of their life with.

    Again Jen, thanks for commenting. Let me know if I can help with anything else.

    05/21/2017 | 8:18 pm


Wow, thanks for writing such a funny, informative, and helpful article. You really covered so many aspects of dating, and finding someone who is compatible for you. I like what you wrote about rebounding, and how it is a good idea to be patient before you start hooking up with new people. Like you said, finding someone who is compatible to you will make life a whole lot easier!

05/21/2017 | 5:45 pm

    Ronald Kennedy

    Thank you Brandon. I’m glad you enjoyed it. Although I wrote on a comical theme, I hope you still found some value in this post. When I write, I try covering as much ground as I can, touching on issues that affect the single man or woman.

    Sometime the dating scene can be a ‘rough jungle.’ Everybody’s out trying to get what they can. Most really not giving a damn about who they hurt! These, sometimes, are the type that’ll use you. Play you like a fiddle!…especially when they know they’ve got you on the rebound. You’re vulnerable to anything. Move to fast, you lose!

    But don’t get me wrong, there are some good, honest and caring people out there. Like I stated in my post, just have to be patient. I always say it’s a feeling you get within you, when you meet someone. You’ll know. Sadly, most don’t wait for that ‘feeling’….and those are the ones that get burnt.

    Thanks again Brandon for checking in. Let me know if I can help you with anything else.

    05/22/2017 | 10:57 pm


Before I started dating my current husband I had a long list of qualities written down that my future boyfriend should have, including non-smoker. But interestingly all things on the list lost their meaning when I fell in love. I didn’t even let it bother too much that he smoked.

But now after 10 years together I have started to think that maybe I should have kept that list close to me and made sure that at least on third of the qualities were met. I think now that having something in common could make things a lot easier…

So, having a checklist of the most important things you value is important, even though I don’t know how to keep it in real life because as you say, the looks are the first thing to be noticed.

by the way, I totally understand that men can’t help look the boobs and I actually do it myself too, but not while talking to that person.

Thank you for this interesting post even though I didn’t always get your humor but you have a very particular way to write.

07/07/2017 | 3:19 pm

    Ronald Kennedy

    Thank you for commenting Maria. I guess you can say my writing style is ‘one of a kind’. No one can touch it! Lol. I like to invoke a touch of humor in everything I write, regardless of the subject. Everyone has there own ‘game plan’ and technique when it comes down to dating the opposite sex.

    You held on to your beliefs regarding your list, and what you were looking for in a guy. Regarding your ‘likes and dislikes’ once love kicked in, that list went ‘out the window.’ (That’s what love will do, Maria).

    But Maria, after 10 years with this person, your bound to get used to the bad habits you once opposed. In your mind, maybe you still want change, but remember Maria, you can’t teach an old dog new tricks. Men will be men! Some will always have the ‘roving eye’. When they see a girl with ‘big knockers’, the tongue starts drooling and the mind starts working ‘over-time’.

    But there are some dudes out there, who’ll see a ‘nice pair’ on some pretty young lady and don’t give it a second thought. (…and I can guarantee you, he’s on his way to meet his ‘boyfriend’).

    Thanks again Maria, for dropping by. Let me know if I can assist you further with anything.   

    07/07/2017 | 4:18 pm


What a nice site. I really loved the categories. they are really practical.

I usually find it difficult to know what I am looking for and categories help me to narrow my search. however not always I can find the right categories I am looking for like I found here. thanks for sharing

07/15/2017 | 12:19 am

    Ronald Kennedy

    Hi manor and thanks for checking in. Glad you enjoyed my article. As far as the dating scene goes, it’s a crazy world out there and people everyday are always out seeking their soul mate.

    In regards to the categories on my site, I try and break things down which I feel will best suit all and any couple seeking a ‘hookup.’ Being active and utilizing the different categories is a step in the right direction for the lonely hearts.

    You mentioned having difficulties searching and not exactly knowing what they want. (I have a friend know going through the same thing). I offer my guidance and support. I was thinking Manor maybe you need to look at this book; this my give you a jump start on things. Let me know what you think? Click on the link, my friend:Thanks for checking in Manor. Let me know if i can assist you further.

    07/15/2017 | 2:29 am


Thankfully I have found the one I love so I do not need anymore help with the situation. One thing I would like is for more of my friends to find love.

I think they would benefit from using this site and learning more about the magical ways of love. I appreciate that it is never easy but what worth fighting for rarely is.

08/03/2017 | 2:43 pm

    Ronald Kennedy

    Hi Dagda and thank you for commenting. Being in love is a wonderful thing! You are one of the blessed ones that found the love of your life. Congrats to you! (I would imagine many guys would love to be in your place and experience true happiness.)

    When it boils down to dealing with true love and relationships a lot of people, men and women, don’t know if they have a good thing or not. They always think the grass is greener on the other side. Maybe they’re looking for love in all the ‘wrong places?’

    That last line made me think of one of my friends I grew up with. He’s been searching for love for the past 20 years, and still haven’t found nobody. (Over the years, the only relationship he has ever had, are with women no decent guy would want). Straight from ‘crack head heaven’! lol.

    Off and on, I try to give him advice on how he should handle things when it comes to dealing with relationships and what it takes to start one. If you have friends in need of settling in for long-term romances, first they should get to know a person first. But Dagda, wouldn’t it be great if there was a system a seeker could use BEFORE ever meeting the opposite sex? Wah-La, I created such a system! 

    I put together a downloadable eBook comedy, which touches on descriptive profiles of the sexes. It’s entitled; “How to Select a Compatible Mate.” Here’s a sample of a couple of characters. You can check it out to give yourself a good laugh. Also, share this link with all your friends. Here is is:Again, thank you my friend for checking in. Let me know if I can do anything else for you.


    08/04/2017 | 11:36 pm

Marius Nel

Oh, I have to agree with your pointing out finding love on the rebound. It is very, very seldom that, that l relationship is going to be anything more than physical.

I speak from experience, twice I went through it and twice it has been true. Friends have gone through the same and their results ended up the same.

This is a well thought out route to narrowing down the pitfalls in finding a soulmate. We all would do well to heed your advice.

Thanks a lot.

09/26/2017 | 1:12 pm

    Ronald Kennedy

    Hi Marius, thanks for dropping in. Pull up a chair and relax. lol. I appreciate your commenting on my article. The ‘world of dating’ and trying to position yourself for a long-term relationship can sometime become a daunting task. I feel it’s never a good thing to seek love on the rebound, because it would seem ‘so artificial.’ You really can’t get into that person the way you’d like.

    Some folks are satisfied with these ‘quicky fixes,’ and then realize things still just don’t feel right. This is an early experience most folks go through who recently broke up with, at the time, that ‘special someone.’

    Like you stated, it’s a repeated process the broken-hearted go through. Seeking ‘love on the re-bound’ is never a good move. Marius, I really appreciate you commenting.

    If you have any other questions or concerns my friend, please don’t hesitate to check back in, Thanks.

    09/26/2017 | 11:35 pm

Josh Ellery

wow this is awesome, if i don’t say so myself. I love how original your website is. I’ve never seen a website like this. I like what you said about the rebound thing I can definitely relate to that. I’ve done that many times in my life and paid the price for it mentally big time. That wound is a wound that needs to be healed consciously and in my experience trying to heal that through someone else never works

09/28/2017 | 11:34 am

    Ronald Kennedy

    Hi Josh, how are you? Thank you for dropping by. I’m glad you found my site entertaining and interesting all in one read. I feel it’s always a good thing when writers, such as myself, can create an article with a splash of originality. I love humor! Love to write it and also include funny things in my drawing.

    Love on the rebound give folks false hopes. It’s just a ‘quick cure’ to pamper an individuals hurt feelings. You find yourself hooking up with someone you barley know. This is never a good thing!

    Josh, I guess I don’t have to explain to you about the ‘pit-falls’ of hooking up with a love on the re-bound. I get the feeling you’ve had a ‘few nut cases’ in your life. (I guess we all have, myself included). You venture out seeking that special someone to pamper you, because you’ve been hurt. But you never really get to know the person. (Bingo! Another nut case). When will we, as guys, eventually slow down and smell the roses.

    Again Josh, I want to thank you commenting. Please let me know if I can help you with anything else.

    09/29/2017 | 12:55 am


This is a wonderful article, much needed for some. I have a 40 yr old daughter, she is a single mother who is looking for someone she can share her life with. I believe she’s encountered most of the problems listed in your article, (she read it) and she was able to laugh and talk about her pass boo boo’s.I enjoyed this article because it reminds us of what to look for and what to avoid when we are looking for someone who we are compatible with. It reminds us to slow down and not be so desperate in choosing a mate.

10/24/2017 | 2:54 pm

    Ronald Kennedy

    Hi Rowena. Thank you for commenting on my site. I’m also glad you and your daughter enjoyed reading my article. Yes, it’s a long time coming for some down-to-earth, detailed information to hit the social dating scene,  that covers the plight of singles (in a humorous way).

    This has been my writing style for years. I like to cover the serious side of things with a simple touch of humor included. There’s enough crap going on in the world today that brings us down (that even includes the happenings on the dating scene). Lets squeeze in a little laughter into our lives every now and then.

    It’s great your daughter can look back on past dates after reading this and think; “Wow. I wish I had Ron’s book at the time.” LOL. Of course its never to late. If you want to read some wacked-out profiles, go back to my page and download yourself a copy of ‘How To Select a Compatible Mate’ (really appreciate it). It will give a person seeking love, a ‘heads up’ on what to expect out here in the crazy world of dating & relationships.

    I want to thank you again Rowena, for stopping by. Let me know if I can do anything else for you.

    10/24/2017 | 4:02 pm


So true we all just get into relationships to fill some void. unless we have matured spiritually.

The world of relationships has not yet caught up with modern times, especially city living where a sense of abundance itself stops us from make any committed relationships.

This post has made me think about relationship, thanks you.

11/09/2017 | 9:18 am

    Ronald Kennedy

    Hi ragoo, thank you for checking in and commenting. Really appreciate it. Ahhh, ‘Love, sweet love!’ Some folks dance around in the mist of love. Heads so high in the clouds, they don’t even remember their own name. Some guys may get a friendly smile or a flirtatious wink from a pretty girl. Then run back and tell ALL their friends, they’re in love.

    If one do find, or what they think is ‘true love,’ is it really something meaningful? How do you tell? I guess it’s safe to say, “Only God Knows”

    Ragoo, I agree with you when you touched on city living. You sometimes wonder do relationships flourish more abundantly in certain cities than others? In the inner city, I feel just based on the economic factor alone, it’s enough to drive relationships apart. There’s too many distractions that would drive a wedge between couples that’s not strong enough to overcome diversity.

    But all-in-all, there’s good and bad in all relationships. Couples just have to work hard to make them work. There’s always ‘somebody for everybody.’

    Again, I want to thank you ragoo, for stopping by. Let me know if I could help you with anything else.

    11/09/2017 | 11:09 pm


great article, funny but has a lot of truth in it. The thing about finding your mate is that the more desperate you are and unhappy, the more it becomes difficult. i believe you need to be happy alone first before you can draw in into your life, experiences that can help you find your best match. the trick is not get attached to someone, but define what do want in a relationship and feel good about it, and will happen.

12/04/2017 | 4:53 am

    Ronald Kennedy

    Hi Fadi, how are you? Thanks for checking in with me and commenting. I’m glad you liked my article. I always write with a touch of humor. I feel there’s enough crap going on in the world. Why not read some ‘feel good’ material?

    You hit it right on the money, when you said, “that the more desperate you are and unhappy, the more it becomes difficult.” This made me think of a buddy I grew up with. He’s lonely (living alone for the past 20 years), very desperate and unhappy. When he do meet women, it’s only for sex! Nothing else. (Then he complain to me why he can’t keep any woman he meet).

    I have to tell him, “Dude. You have no respect for women. You don’t take time to know them. It’s always about how fast you can get them in the sack”. (Once my friend accomplish that, then the woman can go to hell).  So sad! With actions like that, he’s looking for another lonely 20 years.

    Yes, you do have to feel good about yourself, before you can feel good about others. That feeling should radiate within you and spread out to others, that you care about. Like I tell my friend, if there’s a woman out there for you, she’ll cross your path naturally and you’ll know it. You’ll get that special ‘feeling.’

    Thanks again my friend for stopping by. Let me know if I can do anything else for you.

    12/04/2017 | 8:23 pm


You are right Kennedy,

When you feel in love during the early stages, there is usually so much fantasy and imaginations, but once you have gone a few months or weeks into the relationship, things start changing, and reality, as you say, hits you.

Personally, I think finding the right mate is more about getting a best friend first before getting to love. This way, you have started with reality and will get even better at it, by the time you are falling deeply in love.

12/23/2017 | 1:32 am

    Ronald Kennedy

    Hi Dave, how are you? I’m glad you enjoyed my post. ‘Love is a many splendor things’ as the song title goes. But many of us take love for granted! Another thing is that it’s so sad many don’t know the meaning of true love. It’s like a couple of buddies I know. Love to them is just meeting any type of woman, getting them naked in bed as quick as possible, have their way with them, then move on to the next. (And they both wonder why they’ve been alone for the past 20 years)?

    Yes Dave, when you mentioned fantasy, There’s that ‘element of illusion’ making you think things will go your way  Like you stated, become friends first, then take it from there. You never know what God has in store for you. If it was meant to be, then it’ll be.

    The reality of dating is something the seeking spouse has to take into consideration.They must first acknowledge both has to be on the same page, in order for any relationship to work. And like you pointed out Dave, it all first starts with simple friendship.

    Thanks again Dave for stopping by, Let me know if I can do anything else for you.


    12/23/2017 | 9:44 pm


This was a good read 🙂 The picture at the end that says people that are together are often not in love makes me sad. It takes luck and hard work together for all these things to turn out in the end. You had a lot of good things to keep in mind while you’re out that I’ll take to heart.

02/08/2018 | 4:03 am

    Ronald Kennedy

    Helio Avareth, how are you? Glad you stopped by to read my post. Love in life can be a roller coaster of emotions. Some good, some bad!  It’s my job to point out how crazy some folks love life can be. The cartoon do relate to the ‘realities in life’. I agree it’s so sad, but so very true!

    Yes, many folks do put in a lot of hard work and effort in their quest to find ‘true love,’ but once they find it they don’t know how to keep it together. They still run out looking for that additional ‘side piece,’ figuring they got this woman at home and starts taking her for granted. 

    Most women won’t put up with this feeling of being used. Sadly, some will. (I think those are the ones that’s insecure). Insecure women will just stay in the game because they feel that they can change their mate, only to discover life don’t work that way.

    02/08/2018 | 12:18 pm


I became fairly lost in where you were leading me. I originally thought you were a male writing, then I thought I must have misunderstood because it started sounding very much like a female. By the end I realized I was correct the first time. Personally, I’m very leery of any one who may potentially be co-dependent. I’m simply not interested in wasting my time with someone whose heart still belongs to someone else. I’m also a big believer that most women have sex between their ears where as most men are not nearly as complicated. Not saying that it’s always the case, but generally speaking.

04/03/2018 | 12:59 am


As I began reading I knew I was reading a blog posted by a man. However, as I ventured through the post I began to question if I had understood correctly because it sounded very much like a female writing (especially after watching the video).

Personally, it’s important to me that I do not get involved with anyone who may be remotely co-dependent. Being a rather independent female, the last thing I’m interested in is meeting someone who is super needy OR still has their heart with someone else.

Typically it means finding out how long it has been since the person has been with their last (long-lasting) relationship and what they’ve been doing in between that point and now. But as you say, to each their own!

I am a HUGE believer in manifesting our own destinies. The Law of Attraction is a REAL thing! And NEVER say Never!


04/03/2018 | 1:12 am

    Ronald Kennedy

    Hi Lisa. Thank you for reading my post. Yes, sometime I get that, as far as whose writing this. I tend to write this article with a ‘woman’s mind and point of view.’ I find many more women complain about the opposite sex more than men. Of course there’s no perfection on either side of the spectrum, but we all have to make due with what we have. (although only by choice).

    Being a strong independent woman, is something many women aren’t. You sound like you know what you want in life and don’t take no bulls___! Too many dudes come along just to see what they can get out of a woman. They couldn’t care less about their feelings. I think this is wrong!

    There are good and bad in both sexes Lisa. Just look out for all the sharks and phonies out there because they’re lurking around every corner.

    04/04/2018 | 9:52 pm


Haha thanks for your honest post.

I loved how honest yet funny you were, thanks for making my evening.

Its true that as women we do wearing flashy outfits and leave our assets hanging out but then get angry when men make a comment. If you don’t like those comments then cover up girlfriend i say!

05/07/2018 | 4:36 am

    Ronald Kennedy

    Hi SJ, Thanks for checking in with me. I’m glad you enjoyed my post. Yes, you speak well for all those ladies out there. Those ladies who ‘hang out’ all over the place, and when us dudes stare too long, then we catch hell. (You don’t want us to look…then don’t show them.) Hey, men will be men. (I can speak for all of us ‘chest’ men).

    05/07/2018 | 3:59 pm


Ok, I read the article, but I still haven’t figured it out why you brought soul mate at the title. Not everyone will be a soulmate how do know if its a soulmate, isn’t that more of a spiritual thing then just hook up for just appearance? Don’t take this comment wrong is just my perspective, I like your humor keep it up.

07/19/2018 | 9:33 pm

    Ronald Kennedy

    Hi Erik, Appreciate you commenting on my post. Trust me, I never take anyone comments personal or in the wrong way. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion! Folks seeking long-term relationships, ultimate goal is finding a ‘soul mate.’ (someone that will hopefully show long-term compatibilty).

    In the ‘spirituallity’ of things it wouldn’t hurt to have someone who’s the same faith as you. Depending on what’s important to you, some couldn’t care less about your faith or religion. The first and most important part is just getting to know them as a person and their personality.

    07/20/2018 | 1:07 am

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