How To Get Your Ex Back – But Here’s 7 Things You Should Not Do.



Originally Published: May 9, 2021

Updated: December 20, 2021

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“Research shows that just 15% of people actually won their ex back, while14% got back together just to break up again, and 70% never reconnected at all.”


Admitting Your Mistakes Within Yourself Is The 1st Step Towards Getting Your Ex Back.


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Don’t Rush In:

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“Hey dude! Still trying to find your ex-girlfriend’s cell number?”

I understand the anticipation of ‘hooking up’ with the ex brings on some measure of excitement. How to get your ex back is currently your main focus right now.

As a guy whose been through a bunch of crap regarding love and relationships, we tend to blame the ex for our breakup. But in reality, is that the proper way to think? Is that fair?

This Is the part of your life that you want to correct. But do it carefully & slowly. Your past love is all that you think about.

Sometime after a breakup, you realize the breakup was over something silly. By then, your significant other is gone. But not far enough where you feel another chance is out of reach! 

Change Your Ways:

How To Get Your Ex Back-7 things you Shouldn't Do.
Guy trying to figure out how to get his ex back.

You remember that after your breakup, that feeling of rejection, was almost unbearable. Eventually, you have to deal with the painful truth to heal your broken heart. You kept having these thoughts in your head like, “what’s wrong with me???”

You may or may not want to admit it, but your past actions was mainly why she left your ass in the first place. I don’t mean to sound harsh, but the truth sometimes hurts!

If you’re at a point where you feel like nothing you can say or do can turn things around with your ex, I completely understand. I’ve been there myself. But I’m here to tell you that you have more power and more hope than you think.


Be More Respectful:

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She’s pondering a future of loneliness.

Respect goes a long ways! This is what keep relationships intact. Don’t start bringing up the past and the stupid shit that eventually broke up the relationship.

She’ll start thinking about it. Remember, you’re trying to get her back, (NOT run her away…AGAIN!!) Some guys resorted to the fact they’re going to be alone forever! But it don’t have to be that way!

So never give up and just stay positive! You want a relationship where you can finally feel value, respect among each other and loved in a way that you’ve NEVER experienced before.

“The 7 Biggest Mistakes Men Make”

Dudes Trying Hard To Get Their Women Back:
  • Apologizing for your behavior
  • Sending flowers or chocolates
  • Promising to become who she wants
  • Dressing nicer
  • Showing your anger or pain
  • Contriving manipulative strategies
  • Showing your desperate or needy
“…..These things only reaffirm her decision to leave you.”

They may get her attention, something you’ll definitely need to achieve at some point, but none of which fixes anything at all about the root problems behind the breakup.


Communication is ‘Key!’

Breakdown Of Mistake List:

How To Get Your Ex Back-7 things you Shouldn't Do.

This dude know he ‘screwed up.’

  • Apologizing to her because you know that you acted like a damn fool while together. You think this will make things all better. Don’t waste your breath, my friend! She heard enough of your apologies during the relationship.
  • Sending gifts, like flowers and candy, tells her you’re trying to buy your way back in. She won’t fall for it. Nice gesture, but this move won’t change your personality.
  • Promising you’ll be a ‘changed man,’ is a joke to your ex. Making ’empty promises’ won’t get you back in good with her. This will come across as a phony move! She’ll feel you’ll NEVER change. Remember, you said this many times before while together.
  • You’ll wear ‘better duds,’ you say!? While together you were the biggest slob in the neighborhood. wearing same old sweats every day, so she knows you won’t change.
  • You think that displaying fits of anger and pain will make her feel differently about you? Not a chance! You say you’re mad because of the breakup and wishing you both were still together. So whose fault is that?
  • If she think you’re planning some strategic, manipulative ways to get her back, then you’ve lost out before ever getting started. (Trying to be slick will look bad for you in her eyes).
  • Acting desperate, needy or (‘thirsty’ as they say in street, dating terms,) will make you appear super jealous if she gave you another chance. Or maybe you just looking for some other reason than love….like a place to stay or financial help.

I know that you’ve heard before how good communication is ‘key’ to making a relationship successful. You’ve probably had friends that have busted up with their ladies because of lack of communication.

Then you find out what little communication they did have was when they argued. The argument could have resulted from commitment phobia. (Maybe she wanted to take the plunge, and you didn’t) Why make that same mistake?

She’s probably taking a ‘second chance’ on you hoping that you’ll be more open to better communication.

Most women don’t forget what happened in the past! Unless she’s so ‘smitten, back in love’ with you, then you better get it together and show her you’re a ‘changed man’ by opening up more.


In Conclusion:


We always say there’s ‘Someone for Everybody.’ Regardless if your trying to figure out how to get your ex back or you trying to hookup with someone new, the dating rules all apply regardless of who you court in life.

So give it your best shot. If you can rekindle love with your ex, then ‘Go For It!’

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