Dating Games | Selecting Compatible Mates

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Dating Games | Selecting Compatible Mates


How Playing The Dating Game Must Not Be Taken Lightly.


Serious Involvement Should Be Taken Into Consideration While Playing The Dating Game.

Men. Women. Love. Marriage. Society has long dictated that in order to build a successful relationship, complete with understanding and trust, there must be commitment. Playing dating games should take a backseat to a more settled life!


        “Damn baby, you got some cold lips, but I like it.”

Now-a-day, folks entering into relationships have NO clue as to what those two words mean:


Ah yes…Commitment! Just this word alone will have most folks shaking in their boots.

Therefore, just thinking about having that one last fling before taking the plunge gets you a little shaky! All you really want to do is keep on meeting those of the opposite sex.

Also, understand sometime that dating can be awkward. Asking someone out could be nerve wrecking! So how can you tell if he or she is interested in you?

The anticipation of a long lasting relationship with that special someone goes through your mind. The image you hold is long-term.

You don’t even care about how much money they make or material things they possess, or his or her background (this goes to show how desperate you are!).

But finding your mate doesn’t have to be out of desperation. It’s just experiencing ‘that feeling’. This is a feeling that will make you shout, “I think I’ve found my potential mate”.

So you really think you’re ready? See video…




The type of occupation they have really doesn’t matter to you. They can be a computer geek repairing motherboards or replacing ram for laptops. Or they may work online, struggling to make a few bucks with a network marketing company.

Then again, maybe they just won’t work at all! (It makes them break out into a ‘cold sweat’ just thinking about going to job interviews.)


“Hey, scratchin’, fartin’. and stinkin’ is what I do best.”

You know, ladies, some guys take great pride in being plain lazy. They are tired by the end of the day just from doing nothing!

Who wants some guy lying around the house all day smelly, drinking beer, eating fish & chips and playing video games on their Xbox?

You may really find yourself in that situation. After working two jobs, you come home one evening to discover this person with their feet up and playing video games.

But at least he did bathe earlier, so you’d have to give him that much credit! But or some reason, he still stink!  Fartin’, watching games on tv, playing on the Xbox and doing other weird stuff all day are his favorite activities.

But all in all, romance is in the air. It’s everywhere! Even animals go into ‘heat’ and want to make a hookup. Meow! Meow!


              “Biggest one I could find.”

These are just a few of the things you think about. Things you may or may not have to deal with.

Yet, before any preparations can be taken toward the ritual of marriage, the proper choice of a mate must take place. This is where you have to be careful!!

Now ladies and gentlemen, you sit down and question yourself. You think; “How do I meet someone who’s worth the time and effort?” “Will I regret this in the long run?” “Will I get taken for a buggy ride?” “Would I have to protect my money by changing banks and my password?” “Should I get a Prenup agreement?”



Suppose one night you’re watching your favorite crime program, “America’s Most Wanted.” The woman you’ve been dating for the past three years suddenly appear on the show’s ’10 Most Wanted list.’ Now what do you do?

Do you:

A) Jump on your cell phone and tell all your friends that your women was on the tube.

B) Confront her to let her know that you know about her past life.

C) Get the hell outta there as fast as you can because she’s wanted for double murder in three states.

Also, take a retrospective tour over past relationships. (you’ve found yourself doing a lot of that lately). Your mind starts to wonder;

“Were they fruitless or rewarding?


“Was the failure due to something I may have done or failed to do?”

“Was the relationship timely?”

Maybe different time sets played a role with you being a modern 21st century individual and your potential soulmate stuck in the 60’s.

Single folks! Help has finally arrived!! (Hey! Not a minute too soon!)




How to Select a Compatible Mate was created by me, Ronald Kennedy. I ridiculously profile & poke fun at the numerous singles who line our city streets and singles bars. (Recommended reading for a good laugh to cure all ills).

Lets not forget those who have been deeply hurt and lied to most of their adult lives; and the gold-digger’s coming out to stake their claim on some hapless soul.

The single person can work on and develop strategies now with ease! You may be walking down the street headed to a neighborhood store, to the mall, to pick up dog food, buy yourself some liquor or to any other area where there are people.

Say you’re a guy and you spot a pretty woman in the area, or maybe walking along the beach. Once noticing her, you’d spend a good amount of time thinking of what to say.

It takes you a while to get up the nerve to approach her because due to numerous past rejections, you haven’t been feeling too good about yourself.


                 Nice and peaceful walk along the beach.

Next, you would then start thinking of every excuse about what could go wrong. “She’s too gorgeous for me.”

I don’t stand a chance.” “Maybe that’s really not a woman. If she show interest in me, then I know something is up.”

Now after using the tools here and following what’s offered to you, it’s full steam ahead!

You’ll walk with pride. Head held high.  Radiate more confidence. Your game plan is well into place! You’re ready to go out into the world and Get Any Woman You Want!

So guys & girls, don’t spend anymore weekend night’s alone staring at your cell phone waiting for a text message or wishing it would ring. Your friends will call wanting you to hang out with them, but you know it’s only because they feel sorry for you. They hate seeing you alone!

You want a mate! A good male companion. Someone you can call a friend! (You know you have to become friends first before ‘lovers’).

Keep in mind that if you are seriously hunting for that special someone, then you need to know everything you can about your prey. Make your best shot count! Bag the best one you can!!

Now with all this valuable content you’ve discovered on my website; ‘How to Select a Compatible Mate’ and a well thought out plan of action, any man or woman can be yours.



First, as far as age goes, remember age ‘aint nothing but a number.’ You can still approach a sexy hot mama regardless of what your age is. (of course, you don’t want to approach someone too young. Then you’ll come across as a’dirty ol’ man.’)lol Just use common sense.

I’m an older guy myself, but love to date younger women. Also, never let nationality get in the way. Lots of guys miss out on the possibility of scoring a winner thinking one-sided. (There’s beautiful women in all races).

Second my friend, understand that women love humor. They like a man that makes them laugh. You don’t have to be another Kevin Hart or Eddie Murphy, but if you feel that you want to joke around, go ahead and make her laugh. Just don’t be offensive!

I used this approach on a pretty girl I met while out buying dog and cat food. She was laughing at mostly everything I said, but unfortunately she was already in a relationship. (Hey…can’t win’em all).

Third, make conversation related to what ever you’re doing at the moment. Grocery shopping? Then ask her about the freshest fruit to buy, how to make a good salad or how high the store’s prices are. If you’re out walking your dog, you can meet many ladies out doing the same as well. Be creative, friendly and smile a lot!

Fourth, don’t be intimidated by a woman’s beauty. Guy’s think when they see a fine woman, she wont speak or have time for them.

You’ll be surprised to find out that this woman is just as lonely as you. She realize her gorgeous looks are a ‘hinder’ instead of a ‘helper’ that is keeping guys at bay.

Fifth, just be yourself and have confidence. Try not to portray someone you’re not. You’ll go along ways just by being honest because you don’t want something later, to come back and bite you in the ass.

So in conclusion, you’re not going to come out on top every time playing dating games.  Stay in the game by keeping yourself available. (You never know what day, or place that special someone may come along).

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Author | Ronald Kennedy Comments | 45 Date | 11/04/2017

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I like the way the site owner lays out there start page. It is done in a cleverly way and with a very good sense of humor. I felt myself engaged in the article that was written waiting for the next comical or clever thing to be said. I felt like the article was keeping my attention. I was looking forward to the answers that he or she was eluding to be coming at the end of the article. This is well written and in a very funny way.

02/07/2017 | 2:32 pm

    Ronald Kennedy

    Thank you for chiming in, Patrick. Glad you enjoyed reading it. I always write material based on a mixture of comedy and real life stuff. A reader never know when the next surprise will hit. As long as the reader stays engaged, then I feel I’ve done my job. Thanks again for dropping by.

    02/08/2017 | 1:38 am


Some great advice and good home truths here. I love the burping farting man you have pictured there, and boy don’t we all know a few of those. Sometimes love is really blind.

I think the worst part for most people is actually making the effort and going out and meeting somebody. It is always scary at first, and I agree it isn’t always easy to find that special someone that you can connect with.

Keep these helpful posts coming.

02/18/2017 | 6:40 am

    Ronald Kennedy

    Hi Michel and thank you for commenting. Glad you liked my article. I feel when the ‘love bug’ hit, some folks lose all control. They seem unconcerned about the person’s faults, they just want to be love. That’s the trouble with people, just the idea of being ‘in love’ is all they care about. That is what they consider a most important element in their lives. Then down the road, they realize a mistake was made (and it wasn’t on the other persons part).

    I agree when you stated their is some initial fear when hooking up the first time, but those are the chances you take until you do find the ‘perfect one’. Thanks again Michel for commenting. Let me know if I can assist you with anything else.

    02/19/2017 | 3:17 pm

Hari S Nair

I have read your posts before and like always, I was engaged in reading the content from top to bottom, nodding along and laughing a lot.

Wow, you just touched some of most essential aspects of dating in today’s world, people just are unaware of what they are doing to themselves.

Lol, I don’t know what I will do if I find someone I am dating on such a TV show, that’s a nightmare.

So many programs built around dating now days really are making lives more miserable by just finding a way to make money by just using the fact that people are in need of partners. Being an affiliate marketer makes me aware of a new such product coming every month, your site is something that can save many such lives.

Very nice post really, awesome read!

03/09/2017 | 8:27 am

    Ronald Kennedy

    Thank you Hari for your kind words. I’m glad you get some value and enjoyment from the post I write. I try to be as real as I could when touching on the ‘strange world’ of dating. There’s good and bad in everything. You never know just how that person is until you’re knee-deep into the relationship. It’s like quicksand!

    As you stated Hari, tons of dating and relationship programs being shown to viewers, but none you can take too seriously. Its really all about revenue for the tv network. Hey,Hari, If my site is shared enough, maybe I could step in and ‘save the day’ for others. ‘Ron,The Super Hero’. LOL

    03/09/2017 | 2:15 pm

Ronald Kennedy

Thank you Sam for commenting. You’re absolutely right whereas, folks out here on the dating scene don’t know what they want. They hookup with that person they feel is ‘the one’. then later, regret it in the long run. It seem today, as far as value in a relationship is concerned, that thought goes down the toilet. Value seems to mean nothing anymore.

But don’t get me wrong Sam, there’s a lot of good people out there; it’s just hard to come across them in a sincere way. The personality just ain’t there! Thank you Sam for commenting. Let me know if I can help you with anything else.

03/10/2017 | 3:50 am

Ronald Kennedy

Thank you for your comment, sam. I do apologize for getting back to you so late. Yes, sometime being single establishes yourself against unwanted mental pressures and confusion. But you made some excellent points here, especially when you stated women hooking up with losers based on their emotions. One of the other major problems I see is women trying to change their man, once they get them. They want them to look and preform to their satisfaction. Then, down the road, the woman’s complaints start coming regarding their mate’s behavior, among other things. A lot of false hope is on display.

Also, when it comes to children, some women take for granted that the man will eventually ‘warm up’ to the little brats. There’s problems right there. Can’t force someone else’s child on another. A ‘Big No No.’

Again Sam, thanks for checking back in with me. If you have any other questions, comments or concerns just hit me up.

03/16/2017 | 9:51 pm


Some great advice here! Commitment is that magical word that so many tend to be afraid of. Any relationship without commitment is no relationship at all, right? It builds trust and love grows stronger.
I was so intrigued reading this from top to bottom. So many great insights and I like that you bring humor to the topic. Being single can be frustrating at times but I believe this article will bring a new level of happiness.

03/28/2017 | 11:23 am

    Ronald Kennedy

    Thank you Katie for commenting. Glad you saw some value in my site. Yes, the whole dating thing can be a gigantic bowl, in our society, of mixed nuts. Then sometimes things may roll out smooth as silk. (Depending on who you end up with and how the relationship evolves). I clearly understand that the word ‘commitment’ makes most dudes weak in the knees and want to run the other way.

    But it isn’t always all doom and gloom. There are many bright spots when a person looks forward to committing themselves to that special ‘one’ person. They don’t have to worry about running around, spending a lot of money on some woman that they later regret. (The guy figure that money would have been well spent on lottery tickets).

    I don’t know if you’re single or not Katie, but if you are, just hang in there. Mr. Right is bound to come along. (If not, I’m always here buried under the ‘sea of singles’. Just dig me up!)LOL

    Again, I want to thank you Katie for checking in. Please let me know if I can help you with anything else.

    03/28/2017 | 3:43 pm

Lucy Bowman

It is true that we tend to overlook someone’s shortcomings when we are looking–sometimes desperately–for a partner to share life with. This isn’t necessarily a bad thing unless the shortcomings you are overlooking are like the anecdote you shared in your post…a criminal. =) I think it helps to have certain questions you want answers to and scenarios that you want to observe the person in. I also think that this is best done before two people are intimate. Our logical minds get foggy when we are being ruled by our body and not our mind. What do you think?

03/29/2017 | 7:05 pm

    Ronald Kennedy

    Hi Lucy, how are you? Thanks for commenting. A lot of times folks, especially after a recent breakup, rush right into another relationship mostly out of fear of being alone. Not really taking into consideration, no time was spent getting to know this new ‘flame’ (the one they claim ‘ignited their heart!…Yeah; right!)

    In their hearts of hearts, they feel good about their pick. No past investigation needed! (this turkey could’ve just been released from the state penitentiary last week). Then the woman complain later about how bad she’s treated. Same with a guy. He falls for the ‘smoking hot body and cute face.’ Never mind that she turns out to be ‘psyco’, (A straight up nut case!) This is what happens when guys think using the ‘wrong head.’

    You made some excellent points Lucy and I agree 100%. Thanks again for commenting. Please let me know if you have any other questions or concerns.

    03/30/2017 | 4:14 am


Very interesting and informative article on dating mind games, I was married once a long time ago and it did not work out she abandoned me and my sons.

Since then I have not been involved with anyone new, for the longest time I was damaged goods for the abuse from my formal partner.

Most people don’t realize guys can be emotional damaged from a relationship as well, thank you for the great tips and article it did relate to my own experiences as well.

04/15/2017 | 5:16 pm

    Ronald Kennedy

    Hi Jeffrey and thank you for checking in and commenting. Dating just like marriage could be a rough go as the months and years go by. We all hope the road get smother down the stretch, but sometimes things don’t always go in our favor. During your relationship with your ex, she probably made you feel that it was all your fault. I don’t know the detailed circumstances of your relationship breakup, but nine time out of ten, she was at fault as well. It’s even worse in your case that she took your kids. (that was a real Blow to the Gut).

    But Jeffrey remember, there’s always a brighter light at the end of the tunnel. What you need is a confidence boost. Click on this link Jeffrey, Follow it. It’ll point you in the right direction:hop=…

    04/15/2017 | 7:23 pm


Hello Ronald

This is an interesting read and anyone who has been in the dating field will at one time or the other experienced.

Now looking back( I’m older, been there done that)I think most young people are more affected with dating games as young people are not yet sure if this is the one or if they are ready to commit or settle down.

The dating field is a jungle, and with the internet making dating more international, it`s even harder, the woman/man of your dreams who you meet online is not always the person they claim to be. It`s funny you should mention a feeling of desperation when single, and it`s funny that I had this feeling when I was much younger. I think as we get older, there is more security, we are more confident with who we are.

Very informative and really enjoyable read, thanks so much for sharing, I have bookmarked your site, not because im single but because I like your way with words and would like to keep reading your posts.

04/25/2017 | 6:30 pm

    Ronald Kennedy

    Hi Roamy, thank you for stopping by and commenting. Yes, Roamy the ‘dating arena’ is loaded with a vast array of superficial characters. ready to pounce on the vulnerable. Those who just got out of a relationship, weak and harboring a sense of desperation.

    Many young folks jump from the frying pan to the fire, with no sense of direction. No purpose. As you mentioned Roamy, with the help of the internet and its ton of online dating services, things have grown so out of control, like an open field of marijuana invaded by 1960 hippies. Even my own younger days, were filled with young ‘untapped’ women (and I tried my best to ‘tap’ them all).

    Age kinda slows us all, but some of us still do are thing. (there maybe ‘snow on the roof top,’ but still ‘fire in the furnace.’) I agree age does keep you grounded and your confidence is at an ‘all time high’; which is a good thing.

    Thanks again for stopping in and let me know if I can do anything else. Check back any time.

    04/26/2017 | 11:52 pm


I think this article is very interesting.

How much time do you think that we should spend getting to know someone before we decide to be exclusive?

It seems to me that women do choose based on feelings, while men choose within the first minute that they want some kind of relationship with a woman. What kind of a relationship that they want remains to be seen tho…

05/23/2017 | 1:00 pm

    Ronald Kennedy

    Hi Irma, how are you? Thanks for dropping by. I’m glad you found value in my article and found it interesting. Sometime, when it comes down to dating, some folks end up with some weird characters. But we never find out how weird he or she are until much later into the relationship. Some of us move too quickly before getting to know what the other person is all about.

    I feel the appropriate ‘wait’ time before folks become exclusive is six weeks. Could even be sooner, but things should just progress naturally. I always tell folks you’ll know this is the one when you get the ‘feeling’. It’s that special ‘feeling’ you get when everything just ‘feeeels right.’ (This is that magical moment)!

    Yes I agree with you Irma, that women do settle into relationships based on feelings, while us dudes think more of a sexual relationship right from the start. When we look into those pretty eyes, and those pretty eyes are embedded into a ‘cute’ face which is attached to a ‘smoking hot body’,….then the thought of sex is not far behind.

    Again I want to thank you Irma for commenting. Let me know if you have any additional questions.

    05/24/2017 | 4:02 am


I really enjoyed this article. As a single woman I can relate to many of the topics brought up even though I am not currently looking for a relationship it is nice to know that there are helpful tools out there! I have been in countless situations where the question of “What are we?” always comes up and it is extremely awkward from any point on after that. I think I will take a look at this book because it sounds very interesting and I always love reading relationship advice even though I’m not in one! 🙂

06/29/2017 | 7:13 am

    Ronald Kennedy

    Hi Mallory and thank you for commenting. When it comes down to dealing in the ‘world of dating,’ there’s a good chance the single man or woman is guaranteed to involve themselves in some type of issue or crazy situation. Seems some folks, while in a relationship, tend to have the roving eye for others, which of course, never lead to any good.

    When you mentioned that the old question always arise, after a courtship goes for a while; the ‘What are we? (which is the same thing as a person asking,”Where is this going?” or “What about us?” ) Personally, my response to these questions would not leave me awkward, but would have me thinking; …”uh oh.” (This is where I alter my game plan.)

    Mallory, if you like comedy and would like a ‘jump start’ recognizing the different types of crazy profiles regarding the opposite sex, then you’ll love “How to Select a Compatible Mate”. Check it out.

    Again, thank you my friend for commenting. Please let me know if I can help you with anything else.

    06/29/2017 | 3:59 pm


Well, maybe I cannot practice the tips above. Because I’ve a pretty girlfriend already. But, you have a wonderful set up for your page here. I like how you build the imagination of the reader trough humorous way. Nice article 🙂

I’m just wondering do you writing a humor book also? If not, I think you can try to start one.

07/11/2017 | 1:07 am

    Ronald Kennedy

    Hi Satria, how are you? Glad you stopped by. Can I offer you a glass of wine? lol. I just like to make my readers feel comfortable in my own crazy way. I hope you found my article entertaining. It’s a good thing that you’re in a solid relationship. (at least, you don’t have to run around looking for anyone). Congrats to you.

    When I write, I love to work with the concept of how relationships can develop through unorthodox ways. But whatever method a person uses, as long as it works that’s all that matter. Sometime Its easy, other times it may take a little work. But the goal is always the same; winning the prize.

    You also mentioned about me writing a book. Well, as a matter of fact Satria, I did. It’s called “How to Select a Compatible Mate.” If you like to see a complete review of my book, go here; Thanks again for dropping in. Let me know what you think about my book review.

    07/11/2017 | 11:40 pm



I love the advice for building the confidence to get over the “excuse hump” and walk up to the person. Great tips and advice on here that everybody needs to read.

As a single guy I found this pretty spot on! keep it up please!

I agree I think far too many people worry about the response they might get and how it will feel if they fail. We spend more time on thinking about that than thinking about what it could possibly turn into!

07/15/2017 | 12:39 pm

    Ronald Kennedy

    What’s up Jordan? Thanks for dropping by to voice your opinion on The mighty “World of ‘Dating.” Don’t you just love it, Jordan? Some folks make the search harder than what it should be. Most of the time it’s just being in the ‘right place, at the right time’. 

    I try to provide meaningful information that is valuable to you and other readers. Useful advice for all. Guidance is what’s needed to walk that path regarding landing that ‘special someone’. I even help readers thru my humor book, which displays the many different profiles of the sexes. Jordan, as a single guy, you may get a big kick out of this. Take a look at this sample: I agree that most folks, mainly guys, fear rejection from a pretty girl and never make that first move. They experience failure in their minds before initiating ‘the hunt,’ and zeroing in on the prime target. Gotta get it right! I always say just don’t let low-self esteem and shamefulness get in the way of what otherwise could be s sizzling ‘hot’ romance.

    Thanks again Jordan for stopping by. Let me know if I can do anything else for you.

    07/17/2017 | 1:27 am

H Phomrong Maring

Ronald, your website is indeed a valuable mate finding platform. Yes in life, getting a lifelong partner is not an easy task. Because the saying goes that partnership is made in heaven and marriage takes place on earth. And this fact also cannot be overlooked.

Your offering of a site where partners can come together and click themselves for life is, socially speaking, a great contributing platform for the ladies and gentlemen of this globe and I hope to see that many dreams will be fulfilled about finding real soulmates through this dating site.

However the first picture of two frogs representing two passionate lovers may be changed if you can.Human attributes and its vestiges may not be brought down to the level of the frogs although you might have done it for humour’s sake in my humble suggestion Instead why don’t we go for some ravishing pictures say of Monalisa or of the great Hercules for that matter so that there’s lots of traffics visiting your site.
No doubt, the video collection is a fine one to mention with and I wish that so many lonely souls get value and find their way out from this LoveFolks.

All the best of luck.

07/15/2017 | 1:21 pm

    Ronald Kennedy

    Thanks H Phomrong for commenting on the site. I’m glad you found some value in my article. I just lay everything out there and hopefully the reader may see themselves in my writing. They most likely will say, “Damn! That sounds just like me.” 

    Some folks seeking that ‘perfect someone’ feels like it takes forever and they start feeling it just not to be. (A daunting task for sure). But when it happens, they will tell…sparks will fly. You’ll know this is the one. You’ll get that ‘special feeling.’

    Hopefully, my site will guide folks down the right ‘love’ path. Even my book, ‘How to Select a Compatible Mate’        will give folks a ‘heads-up’ in regards to showcasing the different profiles of the sexes (in a very humorous way). A little help goes a long way!

    As far as my site appearance goes, visual images are important, along with great content, as far as holding one’s attention. Everyone loves humor and I always incorporate that into any work I produce. All writers should have their own signature and creative style of writing. I’ve established my own brand a while back and is sticking to it!

    Thanks again H Phomrong for checking in. Let me know if I can do anything else for you.

    07/17/2017 | 12:01 am


Marriage is definitely in my future I am just waiting for the right time. There is a lot of confusion out there about marriage and it is people like you who are helping to dispel the myths and make the truth clear.

When two people love each other so much that they want to spend the rest of their lives together raising a family and spreading joy, that’s when you know its special.

08/03/2017 | 2:46 pm

    Ronald Kennedy

    Hello my friend. Nice to hear from you again. I wasn’t sure by your last comment, if you were already married or not. I was gonna lay some more additional advice on you. I’m glad marriage is counted in your future. Hey Dagda, when the time is right, make it special. Enjoy that special magical moment.

    I try to make the information I convey, clear and concise. Info we all can understand and live by. Of course, most things I write about has a humorous overtone. No matter the subject.

    Like you said, when you find that special someone, you know love will ‘hold it together’. Marriage is usually the next step. But marriage is not for everyone. Many folks are excited just about the idea of ‘being in love’ and not really knowing the ‘true meaning’ of the word.

    A strong and happy marriage, along with having and raising children, is what it’s all about. Let me know how it’s going in your relationship, when the Big Day is set. Again, congrats to you Dagda. Stay in touch.

    08/05/2017 | 12:34 am


Great topic indeed.
The question of finding a suitable partner is a universal issue.
Some of us go into new relationshipd blindly, without having done some research about your partner.
Sometimes we even become intolerant towards our partners because of the fact that we haven’t done some due deligence.
I will surely use this information to my advantage the next time I’m forced to go out on a hunting

08/30/2017 | 8:55 am

    Ronald Kennedy

    Hello my friend, thank you for stopping by. Thanks for appreciating my writing. The subject of love is a world-wide topic that covers much ground in regards to the sexes. Many search for love in all the wrong places. (I have a couple of friends that fit this bill).

    I agree with you when you mentioned about folks jumping into relationships too soon and not really getting to know their partner. (It happens all the time.) Any man or woman, as you say, going in ‘blindly’ is doomed for failure before the relationship ever gets going.

    When couples hook up that doesn’t know each other well, the arguments and disagreements soon began. Next, starts the cheating and lying and then someone’s MURDERED! lol (…I just had to throw that last one in).  

    But seriously, a good relationship is built on lots of love, honesty and trust. That’s way so many couple’s relationship fall apart because these ‘key’ ingredients are not included. 

    Thank you themac20 for commenting. Let me know if I can help you with anything else.

    08/30/2017 | 10:01 pm

Ronald Kennedy

Thank you my friend for checking in and commenting. But most importantly, I’m glad you liked it and thought it was wonderful. That really makes my day! Sometime the world of dating and relationships can become a crazy thing. Lots of folks get out there not knowing what they wanna do!

I’m glad you found some truth in my post. I know some of the things I’ve written would have you thinking; “Did I do that?!” LOL! We all handle certain situations in our own way, in regards to dating.

I feel many of us search for love, in other words; our ‘soul mate’, in all the wrong places. That’s why relationships ‘fizzle’ out before ever getting off the ground. So sad! Not enough research done on the man or woman of their dreams.

Thanks again for commenting. Check in with me anytime, if you have any questions.

09/04/2017 | 9:48 pm


Such good advice on what to look for in a partner. Too many people settle for an abusive relationship because it’s all they know. Great tips on questions to ask yourself about the person you’re thinking of dating. It’s so important that you make sure this person respects you and will treat you well before you enter a relationship with them.

09/06/2017 | 7:50 am

    Ronald Kennedy

    Hi Marie. Thanks for checking in and commenting. Thank you for the complement. I try to tell it like it is; even if I have to air my own ‘dirty laundry.’ lol. But seriously, it does take a lot of work and time to make any relationship sustain ‘staying power.’

    One person going one way, and the other in another direction won’t cut it! Now-a-days, folks hate to compromise. There mind is set to only how they see things working. This is a one-sided affair! These types of situations only occur when one person don’t take time to know the other. Maybe that person had an abusive relationship, but never disclosed their past to you.

    With that said, this is why communication is so important! You must communicate by asking questions before getting ‘knee-deep’ into something you may lose control over and start regretting later. Yes, respect is ‘Key.’ Make each day count!

    Again, thanks Marie for stopping by. Let me know if you have any other questions or concerns.  

    09/06/2017 | 10:34 pm

Steve T

Ron, I see some great advice on a foundation level, but I’m still looking for the formula for breaking through that resistance, (hers and mine) when I strut up to a very hot number and try to break the ice. If I’d done this a few dozen more times in my younger years I’d have lots of notches on my belt, but now I need a better pitch, and I’m not looking for a notch, just a solid relationship with a sexy lady that can enjoy the things we can share…
Can you lay a basic plan on me?

09/20/2017 | 5:32 pm

    Ronald Kennedy

    Hi Steve. Thanks for checking in with me and commenting. Yes the ‘world of dating’ can get pretty tough. But then again Steve it’s all about the seeker’s personality and their confidence level, when it comes down to the actual seeking process.

    First, as far as age goes; remember, age ‘aint nothing’ but a number.’ you can still approach a sexy hot mama regardless of what your age is. (of course, you don’t want to approach and try talking to a chick too young. Then you’ll come across as a’dirty ol’ man.’)lol

    I’m an older guy myself, but date younger women. Also, never let nationality get in the way. Lots of guys miss out on the possibility of scoring a winner thinking one-sided. (There’s beautiful women in all races). 

    Second my friend, understand that women love humor. They like a man that makes them laugh. If you feel that you want to joke around, but not being offensive, and get her laughing, then you can give yourself a ‘brownie point’ (I did this on a pretty girl I met while out buying dog and cat food) Steve, you can also make conversation related to what you’re doing at the moment. 

    If grocery shopping, ask about the freshest fruit to buy or how to make a good salad. Or if you’re out dog walking, you can meet many ladies out with their pets. Be creative, friendly and smile a lot!

    Thirdly Steve, just be yourself and have confidence. Try not to portray someone you’re not. You’ll go along ways just by being honest because you don’t want something later, to come back and bite you i n the ass. Remember Steve, you’re not going to come out on top every time, but at least, stay in the game by keeping yourself available.

    Also, I strongly recommend you download a copy of this inexpensive book. This will show you how to build up confidence and much, much more. I’ve had others get this material and they like it. Click the link below:

    09/21/2017 | 4:39 am

Mat A.

Hi Ron,
I really enjoyed your post on how to play the dating game and selecting a compatible mate. Lot’s of good tips and tricks from a guy that’s had his share of hits….and maybe a few misses lol.
I like your reference to the guy that sits at home, smelly and playing video games. I happen to have had several women friends who actually had this happened – literally floored me. How can anyone think this ok? Well, apparently some guys do.
I enjoyed your 5 tips for the guys. Totally agree that guys should not be intimidated by beauty. It’s not out of the realm of possibility that the prettiest girl doesn’t get asked to home coming or sits home on a Friday night because guys are too intimidated by her beauty.
Your fifth point, and my favorite, is be confident and be yourself. Confidence is sexy and people are drawn to it. When someone is comfortable and confident in their own skin, it attracts people to them.
Thanks again!

09/22/2017 | 4:00 pm

    Ronald Kennedy

    Hi Mat A, my friend. Thanks for dropping in and commenting. I’m glad you enjoyed my site and found value in it. The ‘dating arena’, if you will, can be a crazy place. Each lonely soul seems to be reaching out and searching for something. Some folks don’t even know what they’re really looking for in a mate.

    I always say you can’t win them all, but always give yourself a fair chance. When I think back on some of my single buddies, I think of a life-time of loneliness. These guys want their cake, and eat it too. One of my friends claim he wants a stay at home ‘main lady,’ but at the same time out picking up every ‘skeezer’ and ‘hooker’ off the street. Again, dudes don’t know what they want!

    The things you pointed out on my site, (especially the video portion) would make most guys think to themselves, ” Do I stink like smelly gym socks, ass and corn chips, playing video games all day?”  “Is that why the cat won’t come near me?” You gotta get it together dude!

    Guys on the lookout has to clean up their act, build up confidence, smile and just be themselves in a pleasant way to capture a woman’s interest.

    Mat A, thanks again for dropping in. Let me know if you have any other questions or concerns.

    09/24/2017 | 1:37 am

Eric Chen

Hello Rjkennedy,

I’m not single at the moment, but this would be interesting for my friend who has never dated.

The best part about this is no physical interaction from the start, so you can make yourself comfortable first.

It’s never easy especially with the fear of rejection, but at least you know the other party is also interested and looking while using this platform.

Thank you,

10/31/2017 | 2:30 pm

    Ronald Kennedy

    Hi Eric. Thank you for checking in with me and commenting. There was the movie, ‘Forrest Gump’ that came out I think in the early 9o’s, with Tom Hanks playing the lead role. He was sitting on a park bench eating a box of chocolate candy. A lady shared the bench with him. As he was slowly eating, he looked up and then looked over at the lady. Then in that country drawl; he said; “Life is like a box of chocolates, ya never know wha’cha gonna get!”

    I bring this up because the same principle, just like the box of chocolate, applies to dating. A man or woman, who ventures out into the dating arena, seeking that significant other never know what they gonna get. Eric, just keep that in mind if you were ever back out in the dating world. But if you got yourself a good woman, keep her.

    As you stated, maybe your friend should look at the article. In fact Eric. send him my URL and let him choose which category he want to read. (I have several!) Feeling comfortable around someone you first meet, is one of the main ingredients in regards to having ‘things kick off right’. Once the ball gets rolling and overtime, things will start falling into place; then you’ll know she’s the one. 

    Thanks again Eric for stopping by. Let me know if I can do anything else for you.

    11/01/2017 | 10:58 pm

Tyler Redlev

That’s right, nowadays new generation of people dating don’t understand what’s trust and commitment.

Because these days everything is a game and people are so self centered that they don’t even care about feelings of others and relationships has just become a game now.

But that’s the influence of people culture I think. Everything is a single-use product right now, relationships included.

12/10/2017 | 6:55 am

    Ronald Kennedy

    Hi Tyler. Thanks for checking in and commenting. Yes my friend, the dating world can sometimes send a normal person insane trying to figure out the maneuvers and strategy  of the opposite sex. LOL. You’re right Tyler, that trust and commitment should top the list, as what a person want in a relationship. There’s not enough honest folks around to stay in a committed relationship. People feel the grass is always greener on the other side!

    When you mentioned games being played, it put to mind a couple of my buddies I sometime hang out with. They’re always out ‘playing the game’ and would never take the time out to get to know someone. It’s only about sex with them and that’s it!! (And they both wonder why they’ve been lonely for the past twenty years). But I guess that’s just the way it goes. To each his own!

    I agree with you about the culture thing. But it’s really how men and women conduct themselves in society today. Most women who look good, walk around with their nose in the air thinking they’re too good to talk to guys that don’t measure up. These are the games the pretty women play; it helps build their self esteem. These are the type of women that always need their confidence lifted. Without that lift, they’ll come cashing down like a ‘fallen star from the sky.’

    Thanks again Tyler for stopping by. Let me know if I can do anything else for you.


    12/11/2017 | 2:00 am


Good information, charming and funny! Dating is intimidating, but not nearly as daunting as getting INVOLVED! It is nice to see the side-by-side advice for men and women. It is true – confidence is attractive, fellas! Thank you for laying out lots of issues to consider in a light-hearted fashion! You are a wise and witty man.

12/10/2017 | 11:27 pm

    Ronald Kennedy

    Thanks Michelle for checking in and commenting. ‘Love is a many splendor things’ (at least, that’s what the song title says. But I really don’t know how true that saying nor where do you apply it? We can all appreciate true love, as long as it’s genuine. But true love is hard to find in our society today! Too many phonies out there. Folks not being themselves, or as you stated too intimidating, making dating sometime too uncomfortable.

    It’s great if you find that ‘special someone’ but you never know how anyone is until you get involved. (This is the action which makes us all a little nervous). But as they say, there’s somebody for everybody.

    Dating can make a person who’s seeking ‘that special someone’ a nervous wreck! You have to weed out all the bad apples, to get down to the ‘good crop’. So to all seekers, keep on digging and searching; your bound to come up with a winner!

    Again, I want to thank you my friend, for checking in with me. Let me know if I can do anything else for you.

    12/11/2017 | 4:27 am


Trust and commitment are certainly one of the top two traits required for a successful relationship. Do you think people fall “in love” too quickly?

I have a friend that will say he loves a girl every other week. I once asked what her last name was, and he couldn’t answer!

There is a lot of good advice here for guys. A lot of men seemed intimidated by beautiful women. When really, these women just want a guy to talk to her like everybody else.

Thanks for the article and good luck everybody finding your mate.

02/08/2018 | 5:39 pm

    Ronald Kennedy

    Thank you, my friend Ernest for checking in. There is an enormous amount of energy spent over time, when it comes down to searching, finding and landing that compatible mate. (Not always an easy task). A couple trying to make things work, must understand that trust is the ‘key’ subject towards success.

    Yes I do agree with you that some folks fall in love too quickly, that’s why most relationships fail. There’s no time in getting to know each other. Some folks just like the idea of just being in love, and place no bearing on the relationship in itself.

    Ernest, your friend is just out there looking just to get laid! (He have no interest in being serious. I have a couple of friends like that too). I bet he has no problem meeting beautiful women, but only for more sex and less conversation. I hope he’s carrying a pocket of ‘raincoats’ for protection. He’s gonna need them!

    02/09/2018 | 12:34 am

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